A Love One Dying: A New Ordeal

[carbrill]

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sigh!

i just want to ask ur opinion and advises...

10 years ago, one of my aunt died due to cancer in lungs and brain... we were so terrified until now we are trying to overcome it... but now it's happening again... another aunt of mine is diagnose with cancer last july this year. ryt now she is in chemo therapy... we were confidence that she is doing ok... but when her doctor told her that her chemo therapy will be administer weekly, that's the tym when that fear came back, the fear of losing another love one due to cancer... the sad part is we can't be at her side because she's at the other part of the globe... half of my world is collapsing everytime i can think about it, i'm not ready to face another ordeal... i keep myself busy and i'm trying not to mind the situation my family is experiencing ryt now, but i can't avoid to see my mom and lola crying everytime my aunt calls and my brother telling me the bad news...
but i always think positive and hope and pray that she'll be ok... but the fear is there...

always enjoy and keep every moment a special moment cause we don't know what will happen next...

[T0xic]

pray that she will respond positively to the treatment. nothing is impossible. surrender all your fears to HIM and everything will be ok.

[Sol_Itaire]

I have a very practical approach to this, I hope you don't mind. See, death is imminent for us all. Being in fear is like grieving in advance. I know it's easier said than done, but celebrating our moments--living moments--will do us good. As you research on all treatment options, why not spread life and hope and laughter to the family members. After all, the Present is what we really have.

[alert0]

God never gives you a burden that you cant handle. Pray and He will answer.

[carbrill]

thanks for the replies...

[ojakki]

ang chemo lisod jud na xa kay bisan ma patay niya imo cancer cells, mapatay man sad niya ang cells nga normal... anyway, have the best time with your family nlng mas maau man sad nah xa labi na xmas na padulong... you should be the one to cheer them up and see the positive side of it...
hope this helps...