HELP My family is against my relationship with divorced man

[kikayme]

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ive been dating to a divorce guy for more than 8years..he really love&give everything for me but the only problem is my family coz they are against us..so all we do now is mag kita-kita lang sa gawas just to escape sa ako family..but now ive met someone&he is living in states&my family nagkagusto nya para nako&this guy was single&has a stable job&he is welling to marry me but he really dont know my real story about this divorce guy..
this single guy was coming soon&spend his xmas&new year dnhi sa cebu..but now the problem is the divorce guy he really dont know about the single guy coming.. wat sud i tell him now na di ko mka spend ug xmas nya in a way na di cya masakitan..im afraid basi unsa mahitabo nya..can u give me a valid excuse??

[Sol_Itaire]

so whats the real score between you and the guy from the states?

[joshua_loquias]

wow, nice scenario..hehe.. What you can do is that ask yourself first who u really like and who do you wanna be with? AFter you decide, tell the person you dont wanna be with, to get lost in your life.UU. Tell him the truth. But for me, id rather choose the single guy from US, u know what, coz the other guy came from a broken family, and you dont want that to happen in your own family. Yaw pada atong guy gkan broken oist, ana jd na, pa buotan2x, ing ipo ninyo gawas rna sungay>>>>>beside imo family d gnhan nia, magka conflict lng mo. Ingna ang guy nga, i really want my family, I dont wanna upset them, so we'd rather stop this joke going between us. d vah?? he.he.

[hot_chick]

choose the person na walang sablay.. hehehe...

[junmar4]

namamangka sa dalawang ilog...
lisud jud kaayo if you want to please everyone...
Better make a stand. I bet you're old enough to decide what is good for you.

[flipdruid]

unsa mani oi, hehehe, lisud gyud, u nid to chus f who sa knila.. sa divorce guy nga ani, may nangyari na ba sa inyo? datz y, nahihirapan ka na iwanan cya?

[jewel_anne10]

naku hirap naman nyan... parang "dear I FM..."

piliin mo kung sino sa kanilang dalawa. yung bang divorced guy na lagi mong nakakasama... o yung single guy na ngayon mo pa lang makakasama... tutal naman, family mo lang may gusto sa kanya. gawas kung ganahan sad ka sa single guy. timbangon na nimo...ask yourself, it should be fair dapat before you make a decision. kaw lang maka solve ana because kaw raman ang nakahibaw jud sa imong feelings...

[-shinobi-]

ikaw raman ng himu sa storya into a complecated 1. asa ka malipay adto ka.

[the Messenger]

Why entertain that "rich single guy" whom you've never met when you're already in the care of someone who has stood by you for 8 years despite your family's disapproval? Why keep mum about your current relationship to that single guy?

You seem to have the makings of a cheater, but I could be wrong. Do the right thing. If that rich single guy's coming means nothing to you, it won't complicate your current relationship, so don't let it.

Tell your BF the truth. Tell him someone's coming over and your family would like that guy to marry you. Of course, if you truly love your BF, assure him nothing of that sort will happen.

Treat that visitor of yours as a visitor, but do not omit that important detail about you being in a current relationship. If that visitor is in his right mind, he will not insist in marrying you and this should make the situation less sticky.

I used to believe that silence is the best answer, but in your situation, breaking the silence is the best solution. You have already hurt them with your actions. Please stop deceiving people. Do not ask Istoryans to help you concoct alibis. Just tell the truth.

[egent_kakashiZero]

HALA KA!!!...sure ka date2 rmo sa divorce guy?..8 years mo nag date2?..date ra kha?..divorce cya pero naa pa cya obligation sa iyang family..naa cya anak?..how old?..ako pa nmo sa..palayu na nya...gubot jud tinuod if mgpadayun mo...mka sabut ra lgi nang "balik bayan guy" nmo...Maraming Ganyan sa States hehehehe..bsta palayu nlng anang divorce guy...