Should I let my wife handle the family finances?

[[SCP] Shawnboy]

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Both of us are working and we both have our own wages/salaries. The point is we both hold our own wages and we just divide the expenses for the baby as well as for the groceries, each of us have our own assigned stuff to buy. Is it ok or need to give all my income to my wife and have her figure out how to manage both of our income for the month?

[lady_yan]

it all depends on the both of you. kung unsay mas convenient. for me, ok ra dili ihatag sa ako tanan sweldo sa ako hubby (in the future), as long as he gives me his share sa expenses. dapat naa pud sya iya own money para himself. just be reasonable sa amount na you will give to your wife. para makatarong syag budget for your family..

[marktwain]

I agree with lady_yan depende rana unsa inyo nasabutan ug unsa ang convenient ninyo duha.. Sa amo na case kay i don't give my salary to my wife and ang ako pud wife dli pud mo hatag sa iya salary nako.. Pero ako mag bayad sa groceries ug unsa pa ang mga gastuonon sa balay then backup nlng ang money sa ako wife incase mag kulang.

[franz_fry]

OPINION NOT SUGGESTION:
Im not married actually..I just want to share my opinion...hehehehe
Well...marriage is about sharing in all aspects....money, feelings, happiness, sadness and etc. Mostly of the women knows really how to budget the money...its not really giving all your income to her...just let her hold on of what you have...or may be you should put your income together...the allocate each expenses and your individual wants...para naa moy full view on what you all have....!its like seeing 2 different things in one sight!...hehehe this what will i do when i get married...

[[SCP] Shawnboy]

Thanks with your comments guys.. Pero as for I think it is nice na you will be holding your own salary and have your ownership on the expenses for the family. then you back up each other if one is short with his/her expenses.

[kyleeminogue]

leave something for yourself.. its good to have money on your own...

[sweetsmile]

Wife should be the one who handle your budget for the whole month as what the priest and pastor teach us but for me if imo wife hilig og panic buying and dont know how to handle money, its better to hold ur own sallary.

[archspace]

IMHO, if your married then you are considered as ONE. So, i think it just depends on what is more convenient sa inyong relationship. Dpat raman jd na istoryahan unsay angay na buhaton especially on the expenses part.

[umbrella-eh-eh]

IMO, dapat unta imo i-intrigar imo salary sa wife. that means trust and it is very vital. and the wife also, must understand the needs of her man. Therefore she must also allocate a budget for his personal needs including cash.

pero kung gastador ang wife, mas maayo pa kung ang husband na lang modala sa budget.

[Kenah]

for me as wife, much better kun ang babaye jud maghold sa money, it means that you trusted her, and besides during sa wedding ceremonies mao bitaw naay aras gi-turn-over sa lalaki ang aras, it means nga mo-intrigar ka sa imong hinaguan.
But to the point, karon mostly girl or ang lalaki nagwork ok ra sad nga dunay sharing sa expenses, aron ang mga boys kahibalo sad kun lalim ba ang magbudget, kay tendency gud kun si wife ra ang magbudget, then magtoo man si hubby dako na kaau to iya money gihatag, inig ingon sa wife wa nay kwarta, syempre masuko ang bana mangita kun haina na iya gi-intrigo.

Mostly, mao ni mahimong away sa relation sa magtia-ayon, the husband would say: gastador kay iya wife, pero to think muna-muna sa ginhawag binadgetm sa asawa, especially jud tawn atong mga wife nga walay income, kay naa ra sa balay housewife ra.Louy baya kaau.......