HELP She wants me back but I am not sure

[bag2k_06]

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been in a relationship... almost 3 years now. break up tapos balik tapos break up na nmn... ilang beses nxa nkahanap ng iba dn end up breaking up wit that person tapos mgkakabalikan kami. i maybe d most martyr person na ginawa lahat for that person... until such time, dumped me again and went with a foreign guy.

so what i did, i tried to move on... but after a few weeks, she was asking my friends for my contact number coz she wanted to talk to me daw... then i asked her why and when we talked, she explained everything dat shes more happy being with me rader that bein with that foreign guy. that she was wrong. thinking na ilang beses na nya akong niloko.... its kinda hard to judge what her intentions are...coz karon xa nakigstorya na nilarga nmn pod ang foreigner. though murag mgcge pa ghpon sila comunicate...and dunno what gyud ila nasabutan..

i have just talk to her for 2 days palang though we have not really talk as in what amo decision.
i dont want to go into details coz its a long story tlga.. my question is, is it ok if am going to have an agreement with her like we would give space muna with each other. like cut our communication say until this december... then by next year, if we still want na magbalik, then we will try to work things out...

ok ba yung ganun? rather that talk things over... mahirap kasi, she fooled me plenty of times.. sabi nya,if i can only give her last chance....coz she had always wanted an assurance like maging open xa sa family ko.. but i have not done that pa... and shes looking forward to what Ive promise her....

am not sure if shes serious na gusto nya makipagbalikan. maybe she just needs someone na madali dali niya
coz aware xa how in love i am pero i know how tangga i am...

lisud man gud subayon tanan actions niya and its really difficult to judge her sa actions niya and mga gpangsulti niya.

any advice guys? i know most of you will say that i should move on and find another girl but, guys.....
am willing to give her a chance but i need more time.. so i dont know whats the best thing to do and what to tell her..

[diem]

If you NEED time then GIVE yourself time to heal dude and re-evaluate yourself and your feelings for her.

Sa totoo lang, kung masaya ka dahil mahal mo siya, hindi naman katangahan iyan eh.

So take a break muna. If she's serious about you and her being together, she would understand and be willing to wait.

What's a few months diba, compared to the chance of living your lives together til death do you part?

[rl]

sigh another case of foolish love,.. been there done that............ dont be stupid..... thats all i can say......... dont wait na married namo coz once a cheater always a cheater.. think about urself oi.. thats all i can say..

[tuWaD!!!]

kaning foreigner ba, kanang tiguwang? asa pd na niya na meet?

[jntio]

ayw lng move on. pg martyr nalng ever

[sugar_pop]

move on bro..she is not worthy of your love..she should not do those foolish things in the first place if she really loves you..find someone who will love you and will not cheat on you..kadghan namn gud nya nabuhat..then the cycle kay parehas lng japon..buwag then makigbalik nimo..are you not tired of that situation? give yourself some pride pud woi..this is hurting but people will really think na grabeh ka ka martyr and basin pabuhatan na jud kag rebolto sa imo mga friends...btaw kidding aside...think it twice or maybe a hundred times para ma enlighten jud imo mind...

[the Messenger]

She's the one who wants you back so let her wait until you say something and until you make up your mind.

Why do you have so much faith in that sl*t who cried "wolf" so many times?

[dandavix08]

panimalos lang dude use her to satisfy your *** life and afterwards pul an naka ngita ug tarong nga girl..... ....... f..k her be a sadist man! tagam lagi ni dli na mangita nimo ikaw tagbaw sab ka! dba??

[bawdogs]

bro...murag maka relate ko ani...dili man pareha gyud tanan sa imong life story pero pareha tag na experience pero kaning ako-a dugay ng nahitabo..akong GF sa una murag dili gyud mahimotang mag sige gyud balikx2 sige pod kawala...ako ra gyud ma sulti nimo bahin sa akong experience ma problema gyud ka ana bro...tinuod mahal gyud nato na sya pero later gyud bro mo abot gyud ang time nga mahasol ka...labi na sa mga na hitabo niya...dili gyud kalikayan bro nga mahimong unya ninyong away ang iyang gipangbuhat..ang akong ra na buhat karon bro pag mahay ra gyud...mas maau bro mentras dili pa kaau na nidako nga problema...pag ampo nalang nga makalingkawas ka ana...pero nara nimo bro kay basin lang matarong na sya....lahix2 man pod ang life...basin lang imoha dili ma pareha sa akua...pag set lang gyud og limits kong asa raka kotob ayaw nag dive sa lalom pa kay basin dili na madala...

[bawdogs]

panimalos lang dude use her to satisfy your *** life and afterwards pul an naka ngita ug tarong nga girl..... ....... f..k her be a sadist man! tagam lagi ni dli na mangita nimo ikaw tagbaw sab ka! dba??

ok pod ni..pero as experience not advisable..the more you have *** to a girl naay possibility nga ma close ka niya...but not all..some playboys i know will have *** to a girl tell 6-7 times and leave ,hehehe the more sige mo *** the more magpangita ka niya...again dili tanan...mas maau gyud nga avoid such contact in a long period...daghan gyud na biktima nga laki ani...heheheh