Is It Possible?

[SweetCatEyes]

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After having a long relationship with someone (1 to 4 years) you suddenly realize that you are not inlove with the person anyway. That you just stayed in the relationship because you wanted to feel loved, to join the bandwagon of couples everywhere, to tell the world that you are in a relationship or just to experience it. Because after you separate ways you get over him fast (faster than the time he courted you).

Is it possible that someone stays in a long term relationship for reasons other than Love?

[blade101]

no, you must feel at least something for that person. remember no one is perfect, naa jude lain na side to a person. if you didn't feel anything for that person, dali ra kaayo ka mu give up when you find out that there is something in that person na di ka ganahan. you may enter a relationship kai naki-join ka lang sa uso or you wanted to feel loved pero I don't think you would last as long as 4 years if you don't love the girl or guy.

[bUrbY_dUll]

hala no?ka sad ana sa party nga nainlove oi...pero just the same..just be honest nalang wd each other..and deal with the consequences that comes along with it...

[kiat_kaau_kusion_beh:-)]

i think it is. there are some people who are like that or maybe as the years come by the relationship gets drier and drier and then the feeling is gone. its possible, me think.

[KaTzKi]

i wudn wanna be hooked up wit someone i dun love in the first place. maybe one feels that way cos of "hatred".. i really dunno.. for 3-4yrs? that's a long time! it is possible tho like when yer in the mid of the relationship u suddenly realized that u dun love him.. that cud be possible.. but i dunno.. not loving the person the whole time? weird..

[digitalsuperman]

i dont think its possible. but it doesnt mean its impossible.

[zer0_cooL]

OT: ^^digz kalibog ko...

yeah its possible... excuse me lang ha pro there are guys who tends to keep a relationship because of "investment"... kana btaw dako na ila na give na time, effort, and money in you then para nla kay wala pa cla na satisfy then they tend to keep the relationship until paminaw nla dli na cla alkanse sa ila investment.. then there are other people nah sa kadugay na sa ila relationship kay wala na cla kabantay na they dont love each other anymore or the other person doenst love his/her partner anymore murag btaw ug routine nalang na nla.. kay mao man ang naandan then mao sad ila gbuhat... ive read it in a mag man sad... kasagaran kay mao jud na...

[kalinaw]

Is it possible that someone stays in a long term relationship for reasons other than Love?

Are you referring to a relationship of a married person, i mean folks bonded through married without much love & affection. If these are the case, i believe its possible. Everybody can impose a self sacrifice for the benefit of there childrens.

[cLowNanGeL]

do you believe in "falling out of love" thingy? coz if you dont;then i do..

i had these relationship once we lasted for about 3 yrs and i woke up one day that am not in love with him anymore.. (honest)... next to that is 5 yrs.. i left him because i dont love him anymore.. the faults that they only have is that there not able to pass my expectations..sad no? everything just turned to waste... and now am with a man na he is good, he is caring, loving and was able to met my expectations but the thing is he's making my heart aches so much sometimes its unbearable.. but still i love him though.. am afraid that i might reach to the same stage again na mapul an ko or ma fall out of love ko labi na karon na naay mga basehan..

coz for me man gud.. people change.. if they are bad possibilities are they'll turn good after a span of time.. mao na mohatag ko chance.. but then after a while if i see na dili jud or ala jud kausaban.. then why the heck hold on db? time,money,effort wasted is not the basis of clinging to a relationship man.. if they still love u wa na ka mahims kaysa ull live in a world of lies..

[rheine]

for me if its beyond two years then they really shared something real. but if it were really love then wa ta gyud cla gabulag...they'd always try to make it work. things happen, people change...love could either grow or you or the other have chosen (decided) not to love anymore for some reason. basta you loved trully mao ranay importante.