HELP I can't accept how my girlfriend can easily replace me

[akoniikawni]

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here's my problem.

I have my ex-girlfriend.. we've been in our relationship for almost 2 years...Usa ra jud amo pirmi awayan.. or lalisan.. it's because of time.. sometimes di man ko hatag ug time niya pamaayo because of work..kasabot ra man siya at first but the time na ng part time ko ngadto na siya nakigbuwag nako... On the first place sala nako in which I admitted it and I can't blame her why she divert to someone. But kaila ko sa lalaki iya na uyab ron,that's the problem 'coz I already have doubts at that time. Anyway she ask permission man sad na mgkita sila because mgpatabang siya para mangapply, then sugot ra ko because I trust her. I only knew in detailed na pirmi sila mgkita diay without my consent in which unfair to my part. Admit ko naa koy sayop but how come you give the guy a chance sa katong uyab pata..I think its not me who has the problem.. right? pls advice.. right now im l hurt i don't want to think bad to her 'coz she really loves me... but naabot lang time napuno na siya...thnx in advans.

[badu7]

she does not deserve your time bro, pangitag laen.

[akoniikawni]

nglibog ko ron bro at this point in time.. i don't want to think bad of her coz ako ang nagkulang sa time. I admit sayop ko but i think mas grabe siya kay dali ra ko napulihan.. Honestly no third party involved to my part but ang kasakit kung kinsa ako gidudahan sa una maoy jud ang nigawas. She said napuno na siya nako , is it like that? Kung ako itimbang sa una she really loves me and contento na siya nako but why ingon ani man ang nahitabo, is it really the reason coz i cant give her much time..? Nglibog ko kung mo move on ba ko or fight for it even na siya lain.. I don't know where I stand...

[badu7]

Hmm .. For me lang ha, I would rather not fight for her to get back inito my life. Why? Because, there is a breach of trust na, na kung mawala ka sa iyang side, she will go play with other guys. It's sakit, but some girls are like that (and some guys too). All you can do for now is make it a lesson, be with your girl, no matter pila lang ka minutes imong ma-spare. In a week you could meet her twice, bisag tag-30 minutes lang, have lunch or dinner ba kaha. Nya you can bring her small things, something she thought cute when you went malling ...

Get it over with and you'll find someone worth keeping.

[akoniikawni]

thnx.. bro... for the advice.. in fairness sad sa akong ex ha.. siya lang jud ang nisabot nako .. that is why nagmahay ko wala nako na save dayon ang among relationship...in fact she's waiting... but dalia ra sad oi.. really nagmahay ko coz I could have done the right things for her kung ni aksyon dayon ko... but sakit diay of losing her.. I thought natuok na sad ko niya ...di diay .. mas natook ko ron na nagbuwag mi...I do love her.. but wala lang nako na prove niya but deep inside shes the only girl i've got..

[GOSPELofROCH]

yah mao jud...ilisig lain hehehe may kau ko manambag nya nka nsad ko ana wapa jd nko nailisi huhuhuhu

[akoniikawni]

what do you mean ngita nalang ko ug lain? Or wait for her?

[emperadorse28]

try not to think about it bro....
dghan pa m.abot sa imong knabuhi... try to focus sa imong work...
imbis ma discourage ka... himo.a na nga challenge...

inshort pa datu... sos magmahay rna siya... hehehe

[akoniikawni]

I'm looking the brighter side of this problem. I serve it as a challenge.. but mingaw na kaayo ko niya... Nakig amiga ko niya bisag di pa kaayo mi in good terms 'coz I want to prove to her that I still deserve to her love though wla nako gipakita sauna...hahai...[br]Posted on: May 12, 2008, 04:07:45 PM_________________________________________________I 'm looking the brighter side of this problem. I serve it as a challenge.. but mingaw na kaayo ko niya... Nakig amiga ko niya bisag di pa kaayo mi in good terms 'coz I want to prove to her that I still deserve to her love though wla nako gipakita sauna...hahai...

[Mabix]

ditch her oi. sos yaw na pagduha2x