Spoiled or Loved? Why man nakaingon ka?

[she_babymo]

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I have a 2 year old son.. I'm really confuse between spoiling him and just giving him all the happiness and love I can give..
Hays, it's hard jud to be a parent.. Any pieces of advice istoryans?

loved ka or spoiled?

[anak79]

two yrs old paman....so its not a big deal.....
savour the joy of giving all you can to ur precious child while
it still young...you know... like 2 yrs old...
kay wla pa na silang igong salabtanan about being spoiled
what they do feel at that stage is that:
1. they are safe
2. protected
3. loved
4. well provided and taken cared of.....
they cant use their cognitive sense yet coz it still being constructed with the things
going on around him that includes you and ur TLC's, they dont know it ......they juz felt it.


like i said earlier....dont hesitate to provide him all the good things
you want to give him/her....
enjoy each moment of giving while u can.....kay passing ra kaayo ang
panahon.....babies grow up real fast......

i hope it helps

[she_babymo]

Aww.. Thanks.. One way or the other it's pretty ok to give him what i can give. there are advantages and disadvantages as well..

i keep on looking at his baby pics and i realize that dili na jud mabalik ang iyang pgkababy.. gimingaw sad ko niya na baby pa xa..at the same time, I'm proud of him too that he has grown so big..

the tough part of raising him is, sometimes magwala xa basta dili xa matumanan sa iya gusto.. sigh..

[mariox]

sa akong part, i give everything(useful for her development) to my daughter... pero kung naa things na ibog2x ra, ako siya pasabton unsa possible mahitabo kun ako paliton(even when she's still 3yrs old, she's now 5). daghan duwaan ipanglabay ras balay ig abot...

natural rana na self-centered ang bata esp on that age but giving everything is not best choice... even with her innocent mind, i guide her and make her understand why and what are the effects... proud kaayo ko nga motuo jud xa nako...

ang ako lang kay kung lolo ug lola na ang pangayoan, ihatag man dayon way preno way kambyo...

[she_babymo]

ma.o jud! We were at the mall today and we spent like more than 2 hours at Timezone.. Of course ang aq gi.huna2x is ang bonding.. After i decided that it was time to go home, he shouted and cried he almost choked. i couldn't just spank him there, not in front of all the people staring at us. so when we got into the taxi, I talked to him and explained to him what he did was wrong, he did say "opo" when i asked him not to do that again. He's still 2, I have a long way to go as parent, and to top it off, mo.abroad na iya pa2x so it will just be me parenting him.....

[StArDuSt_142]

loved

[silver]

its sometimes confusing....too much love is spoiling

[she_babymo]

its sometimes confusing....too much love is spoiling

true!

[dark_phoenix]

it's ok to give him what he wants..ayaaw lng jd i spoil..like tagaan nimo xa ug reward because his grades are good...bati jd na i spoil ang usa ka bata..maka lagott....

[StArDuSt_142]

loved