Will you risk getting pregnant to break free?

[SmartAssChic]

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ive come across a question from a friend. am i willing to risk pregnancy and living-in with a person just to break free from my family? my family is a very strict and conservative family. strict to the point that they choke you up. and then my friend asked me this question one day that really got me thinking.

what are your views on this?

[haika_girl]

sis how old are you na ba? you seemed immature yet..
that's not the solution to your problem, think about it!
why not just talk to your parents and tell them how you feel..

[grlnxtdor16]

i suggest u wait sis...

im in the same situation as u..strict jud KAAU akong parents..di ma bang2.. pero u know having a child is not the solution. wala koi anak hap! basin mag duda ka..but i have a boyfriend. although banned jud ko nga magka uyab kai lage gus2 c mami nga mag concentrate sa skul and stuff....

so better pa sis...ayaw sah pag think ug pagka baby..dili pjud karon ang oras. have a baby when ur really ready. getting away from ur parents is not a very good excuse to have a child.... klaro kaau nga dili paka ready so y risk everything?

[ajol]

you're smart

you know what to do

[soreal]

it's nice to be pregnant sis but not when it's for the wrong reasons

[Dorothea]

ive come across a question from a friend. am i willing to risk pregnancy and living-in with a person just to break free from my family? my family is a very strict and conservative family. strict to the point that they choke you up. and then my friend asked me this question one day that really got me thinking.

what are your views on this?

Why does she need to get pregnant or live with someone? She needs to get a job that'll pay her enough so she could go live on her own. Kanang magpa buntis siya para lang makalayas sa ilaha, that's going from bad to worse.

[rl]

bad move, dont make another person to blame for ur problems , deal with it, there are alot of solutions out there

[diem]

[color=navy]Sounds like trading the fire for the frying pan...

Sounds like she's complicating her situation, not solving her issues with her family.

Has your friend have no other option at all? Can't she like get a job, earn plenty of money and then move out maybe far away to another country?

[SmartAssChic]

oh but there is a job. only i work for a cousin who is all controlling. i do appreciate all the replies on this. it was just a thought really. the option is there until 2 years from now, the option is open should there be anything. i know it really not a solution. but im still weighing things out. i know definitely still that i dont wanna be pregnant just yet. i even always ask that friend if he was serious and he was. but i know i should find a way better solution than adding more problems.

[she_babymo]

Wah! Getting pregnant and having a family of your own is a serious matter.

It could be fun but it also is a big responsibility.

Think twice before doing anything you might regret in the future.[br]Posted on: April 12, 2008, 11:03:56 PM_________________________________________________W ah! Getting pregnant and having a family of your own is a serious matter.

It could be fun but it also is a big responsibility.

Think twice before doing anything you might regret in the future.