@Dorothea: To be honest being fit is a lifetime commitment. You need to infuse it in your vein. Your trainer was very correct. Maybe you need to take it one step at a time. Although the progress will not be as profound as other women due to the difference in genetic makeup ( I do know women who goes back to being after right after giving birth), you should never stop believing. P90x is good even just plain aerobics can do the trick. Pero you are what you eat and try to assess on which area ka nifail kay basin mao ng reason why naglisod ka. If you get bore after some time, you might want to join a group of women who are into fitness or a plain training partner will do. Just enjoy the process, trust me, you can do it and you'll eventually have the body you want. Ciao!