Advice for the married, planning to get married, single etc

[swordfishh]

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palit sa ka daan ug mga gamit sa kaldiro, kolon, kaserola, karahay. nya minyo dayon.

[JSL]

chalenging ayo

[bebe84]

Mao jud na ang usa ka reason ngano ga-duha2x ko makipagminyo, kay nakita na nako pano masuko ako uyab, especially kung maglalis mi. Sabagay, karon nagchange na man siya ug gaiwas na lang mi maglalis. How will you know if you are ready to tie the knot?

[-aa-]

sunggo ko dah... pwede butangan pictures para lingaw sad pls?

[-aa-]

ay dah kng ganahan mag minyo pagminyo ,,ang d ganahan ayaw..simple

hahahahahaha.... mao jud!!!! i strongly agree.... hahahahahaha

[emow]

very nice... makes me reflect on my future.....

[chenggay!!!]

wow! it's so nice! i learned a lot! especially waiting: "So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons."

The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience- very well said

thanks for sharing!

[chenggay!!!]

You’re in a relationship that is heading toward marriage. How do you
know
if your guy or gal is a keeper? What signals or cues should you be
looking
for? Getting married can be a big step, so here are three simple
questions
to ask before you tie the knot.


1. How do the two of you fight? The first important question you need
to
ask yourself is how do the two of you fight? Stop for a moment and
think
about the last fight or the most recent argument you had with your
romantic
partner.


Did you raise your voice? Cry? Say things you regretted afterward?
Conflict
is a healthy part of relationships, but how you resolve it can be
either
bonding or destructive. If you handle conflict consistently in a
destructive manner -- like screaming, interrupting, yelling or calling
your
partner names, studies show that you are more than twice as liikely to
divorce over time.


A good relationship is where the two of you fight fair. It is important
that you pick your battles, know when to engage in an argument and when
to
let it go without resentment, don’t name call, and calm down when you
talk.


2. Do you trust this person? Trust is an essential aspect of marriage.
Before you make a commitment, be sure to ask yourself whether you trust
this person. When we trust someone, we believe that person tells us the
truth and that they wouldn’t hurt or deceive us. Since it's important
that
you and your partner each feel a sense of trust, be sure to have a
“trust
chat� before tying the knot.


This conversation will give both of you a strong sense of shared values
(or
not). Here are a few discussion questions to talk about during your
trust
chat:


a. What does commitment mean to you?
b. What does dependability mean to you?
c. Do you feel that your checking account, credit card bills and
appointment book should be private or shared?
d. Do you trust me?


3. Are you and your partner similar in underlying values and attitudes?
The
last question you want to ask yourself before you tie the knot is
whether
the two of you are similar. Studies show that partners who have
compatible
beliefs, values and lifestyles stay together longer than partners who
don't.


Does this mean that you have to like the same music and food?
Absolutely
not, although those differences might be important factors if you are
set
to marry a musician or a chef!


Read this list of 10 compatibility factors. If you and your mate-to-be
aren't compatible in three or more of these essential categories, think
long and hard before taking the walk down the aisle.


a. Willing to try new things that the other partner likes
b. Consider each other good friends
c. Like each other's family
d. Like each other's friends
e. Have personal habits/hygiene you each can live with
f. Share religious or political beliefs
g. Have similar spending habits/relationship to money
h. Like to have fun in similar ways for the most part
i. Have intellectual compatibility -- easy, fun, stimulating to talk to
j. Have physical compatibility -- good kisser, good *** or physically
warm
(mosst important)

wow ka nice pud ani ui! thanks na pud hehe

[melmusic23]

Just make God as the center sa inyo relationship and everything will just follow...

[branluther]

wow ka nice pud ani ui! thanks na pud hehe

thanks for this. very nice. i'll keep this in mind.