evaluate why they are against it... Basin naa sila nakita na wala ka kita...
If they are right take their advice
evaluate why they are against it... Basin naa sila nakita na wala ka kita...
If they are right take their advice
There must be a reason behind. Dnt ignore them kay the blood that runs through our veins came from them, There is one thing nga wala ta nga naa sila and that is "EXPERIENCE".
there usually is jud.Originally Posted by Shofu
i say hear your parents out and ponder on the reasons why against sila sa relationship.
but if you're mature and independent enough to decide and watch out for yourself.. then ikaw jud ang bahala whether or not to pursue the relationship. just make sure that you're prepared for whatever may happen, and that u should know how to handle matters on your own. dili kay mo-suway sa parents nya magsalig ra diay gihapon ka nila ig-human, diba?
if you're really in-love and happy to a person who u think is worthy (by worthy i mean tarong na tao, someone who loves and respects you also), then let no one get in the way of that. ayaw lang sad gyud pag-tinanga. balance lang gud.
mao jud ni ang pinakalisod sa usa ka relationship if involve na ang parents.. labi na against sa inyo relationship.. . had experienced it jud... pwerteng lisora.. so suggestion..... wanna hear it? --- fight for it... be confident enugh that you can handle this kind of situation and believe that you're doing good...and you are sincere to your partner...
kaluoy sa Lord d tawn against akng family sa akng BF.para naku imo mana life oi why man ang parents mag apil-apil na d man cla ang kuyogan...hehehe
Saunang panahon, ingon ani pud ako ginikanan. Against jud kay ga-school pa ko adto nga time. Kaso, i tried to prove to them that its ok and i can handle things properly.
Fortunately, they agreed nga walay duha-duha.
Unfortunately, kadtong gurl nga ako gipagahian sa akoang ulo kay gabinuang.
Well, i''m happy that it turned out that way coz ga-prove cya sa iya self nga dili siya masaligan.![]()
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Now, i'm happy with my married life.
Bitaw, piece of advice lang. Just try to evaluate if its worth diving into such kind of situation nga molabag ta sa gusto sa ato parents.
If you can't think well, seek for other peoples advises of whom nakaagi na ana nga kahimtang.![]()
you can say that one, because you are not looking into the the whole picture (the one that they are looking into).. your family is only after your comfort and sake..Originally Posted by cuttie_angel
word of advice: if your family is against your bf/gf.. try to see them personally or talk to them earnestly and ask them why they are against the person you truly love. (though there are families who are selfish, esp. the dads who hates to think that their little girls are not 'little' girls anymore). A friendly jovial talk w/ all the family members, would ease up the pain and would open up communication channels to the reasons on why they put up barriers against your boo.
Overall, your family is just looking after your welfare (even if you think you can already handle it). Simply put it..
After all, yours is a relationship still, not a commitment to marriage. Anything can happen along the way. And if ever you get hurt by that someone you love....
....its your family who will bear and suffer the brunt of your pain.
mao bitaw ni Thank U ko sa Lord na akng family not against sa akng BF coz of many reasons kay kung mao na ang mahitabo naku i mean maka choose jd ko og ahat between a lover and a family coz it's hard man pud na cge ka kuyog sa imo BF but then imo family bug-at kaau og dugo sa imo BF. dba!?Originally Posted by joshbonz
la nah sila mabuhat ana.... imo na decision... LOVE nah gud nah.. kaw bya magspend sa imo lyf with that person...![]()
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