HELP She wants me back but I am not sure

[kevincraig]

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just relax and think about it..=)

[likyam]

been in a relationship... almost 3 years now. break up tapos balik tapos break up na nmn... ilang beses nxa nkahanap ng iba dn end up breaking up wit that person tapos mgkakabalikan kami. i maybe d most martyr person na ginawa lahat for that person... until such time, dumped me again and went with a foreign guy.

so what i did, i tried to move on... but after a few weeks, she was asking my friends for my contact number coz she wanted to talk to me daw... then i asked her why and when we talked, she explained everything dat shes more happy being with me rader that bein with that foreign guy. that she was wrong. thinking na ilang beses na nya akong niloko.... its kinda hard to judge what her intentions are...coz karon xa nakigstorya na nilarga nmn pod ang foreigner. though murag mgcge pa ghpon sila comunicate...and dunno what gyud ila nasabutan..

i have just talk to her for 2 days palang though we have not really talk as in what amo decision.
i dont want to go into details coz its a long story tlga.. my question is, is it ok if am going to have an agreement with her like we would give space muna with each other. like cut our communication say until this december... then by next year, if we still want na magbalik, then we will try to work things out...

ok ba yung ganun? rather that talk things over... mahirap kasi, she fooled me plenty of times.. sabi nya,if i can only give her last chance....coz she had always wanted an assurance like maging open xa sa family ko.. but i have not done that pa... and shes looking forward to what Ive promise her....

am not sure if shes serious na gusto nya makipagbalikan. maybe she just needs someone na madali dali niya
coz aware xa how in love i am pero i know how tangga i am...

lisud man gud subayon tanan actions niya and its really difficult to judge her sa actions niya and mga gpangsulti niya.

any advice guys? i know most of you will say that i should move on and find another girl but, guys.....
am willing to give her a chance but i need more time.. so i dont know whats the best thing to do and what to tell her..

advice nako? LEAVE HER

she doesn't deserve you gyud. she has been given a lot of chance from you. Give a little respect and dignity para sa imo kaugalingon oi. If there should be one thing you'll do for now is definitely to LOVE YOURSELF. Don't love another person if you wouldn't know how to love yourself gyud. Sobra naman gud imo nahatag sa iya. Pamilin pud ug love para sa imo kaugalingon.

but if di confused ka. try to think things out a thousand times. give yourself some space. try to sincerely find in yourself ug unsa pa imo feelings sa iya.

ask yourself:
1. Does she deserve me?
2. She had hurt me a lot of times for foolish reasons, is it right to give her back my love?
3. Will i see myself happy in the long run if we continue this relationship?

pero para nako gyud noh, ayaw na. it's plain for everyone to see na dili ka niya love. ikaw ra ang nagtinarong sa iya. and it would definitely be not healthy for both parties. you only are confused in taking her again because nalooy ka niya. ayaw pagpaka tanga. don't love somebody because you pity her. pity yourself and do yourself a favor. end your purgatory.

sakto sad ka. no matter how cruel a person is wa gyud ka katungod mu judge sa iya. pero you already know the person naman by what she did to you. so take that hint and stop making a fool for yourself.

the SAFEST way for you to do is to keep on meeting her, if you really are reconsidering her for another chance. go out with her with no romantic attachment. try to re-assess her attributes, preferrably her attitudes. while doing so, picture yourself with her for many years and ask yourself if your willing to be with her with that type of person and see yourself happy. just go out with her and have fun. keep on hanging out until you find the truth.

[Sol_Itaire]

funny but nobody noticed that it was the boyfriend who posted his gf's pics in a dating site to lure foreigners to her. some kind of a bf, huh?