Is it right to stay in a relationship just because you have kids with him?

[gingergarlc]

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I think that if the relationship is not working anymore why burden yourself in living the rest of your life with someone you dont love anymore...you just prolong your suffering...


But paano ang mga bata? Lalo na if they are still young and wont understand the situation...at mas lalo if attached sila sa father...di ba lalabas na parang ikaw ang magiging dahilan ng emotional trauma nila?

Can you give your insights with this matter?

We know there is no divorce in the Philippines. Annulment is costly and you should have a valid ground to file an annulment of marriage against your partner. If you think you cannot love him/her again for the last time and for the sake of your children then there is no reason why you shouldn't leave him/her, but because of your children, somehow they serve as a bonding agent of your marriage, a second thought may arise if its still possible to start a new beginning again in your relationship.... if the choice is to separate.. the kids surely will be affected and will suffer although some in the long can adjust and accept wholeheartedly the truth without one or both of their parents.. and many have overcome the bad effects of living without either their true mom or dad because of good intervention of a qualified practitioner or group of people.

[Jbond168]

the selfish attitude,which a lot of us have today, is to leave him. The mature attitude would be to stick it out, find the myriad ways to make the damn relationship work. nganong ni intir kung dili kaya ang pag suffer.=D