What do you think about this?

[keen]

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that's abuse. plain and simple.

tried women's desk? but of course, there are consequences. would you be willing to go through them?

that... or remain suffering from the maltreatment. it's your choice.

a very difficult decision to make. i hope you'll get through it soon.

[Pinkish]

thanks to everyone who shared their advices. i know some of you are too curious why would a husband would do something like that sa iya wife. to tell you the truth, wala nko xa gpugos pakasal nko and wala pd ko nabuntis bfore me nakasal. Maski dli mi dato, dli man pd ko materialistic person. I can live a simple life ky mao bya ako naandan. I never had so many boyfrnds bfore, he also knew that. Limpyo ko nga pgkababaye sa pg abot nya sa ako knabuhi. I devoted my life to him, even gave up my dreams. I just dont know why he cant be able to understand me nga xa raman ang reason y naguba ang trust nko nya. Ngbisyo man gd ni xa ug drugs sa pgstart pa lng namo sa amo kaminyoon. When I found out, I lost my trust on him. So I think dli mo kablame na ako mgwori everytym. He lied to me so many times. Even sold some of my belongings for the sake of that thing. So until now, I cant decide if i can trust him ky sa ako nakita, ngkaworst namn gd xa. And pun an pa sa ako MIL na mukonsenti, ako pa ila pakasad on na ngbisyo ila anak. Almost cla tanan mga hambog tungod ky kwartahan cla.

[joanne05]

ts i think you and your husband should talk about both your feelings and unsa imong ganahan and dili ganahan sa mga nahitabo. luoy sad ang mga kids. but if after talking wala japon mo resolution nga nagkasinabot mo then leave nalang jud. sabot mo about the kids. get a job and a new life,..it's never too late

[aLohaBby]

leave him if really feel wala na'y chance nga magka ayos mo. but do take the kids with you kay luoy ra man sila. unsaon na lang nga mag dako sila with a man nga ing-ana ug batasan.

[epoaxlan]

thanks to everyone who shared their advices. i know some of you are too curious why would a husband would do something like that sa iya wife. to tell you the truth, wala nko xa gpugos pakasal nko and wala pd ko nabuntis bfore me nakasal. Maski dli mi dato, dli man pd ko materialistic person. I can live a simple life ky mao bya ako naandan. I never had so many boyfrnds bfore, he also knew that. Limpyo ko nga pgkababaye sa pg abot nya sa ako knabuhi. I devoted my life to him, even gave up my dreams. I just dont know why he cant be able to understand me nga xa raman ang reason y naguba ang trust nko nya. Ngbisyo man gd ni xa ug drugs sa pgstart pa lng namo sa amo kaminyoon. When I found out, I lost my trust on him. So I think dli mo kablame na ako mgwori everytym. He lied to me so many times. Even sold some of my belongings for the sake of that thing. So until now, I cant decide if i can trust him ky sa ako nakita, ngkaworst namn gd xa. And pun an pa sa ako MIL na mukonsenti, ako pa ila pakasad on na ngbisyo ila anak. Almost cla tanan mga hambog tungod ky kwartahan cla.

i believe jud sis the root of all ur problem now is drugs jud..ipa rehab nalng na sya sis try daw ask niya if willing ba sya..

[disenchanted]

if there's a chance you guys ma OK, then go for it.. IF you still love him, talk to him despite his shortcomings. but be careful lang gyud and make him promise na he wont do it again most especially sa pag tuok sa imu. let time heal

[THE KID]

i pa rehab nana sis...kai murag padung nana nalisuan dah..laliman kag gituok ka...ang kuyaw ana sunod og dunggabon ka.....

[thereseclaireanne]

Leave him, and take the kids with you, TS. Sayun ra jud kau isulti but i know its hard. Grabeha gud niya manglait.. Taasa gud niya'g tan.aw sa iya kaugalingun, TS.

Women nowadays, especially when kbaw sila na capable sila mubuhi sa iya mga anak, they wouldn't hesitate leaving their husband cguro kung ingana-on lang sila. They wouldn't settle for less.

SO, for now TS, ngita nalang sa work, as what you've said, gipa eskwela gud mo'g reputable schools, so dili sad ingun lisod ipangita ug work.. Good luck TS! Pray lang gyud that everything will be ok.

[I-lab-Iero]

Unfortunate enough in chosing that person,
but you still have the option to get away from the predicament,
I could not see any happiness on your side if you wish to continue to be with him.