need advice!

[granz]

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hi all,

mejo taas ni..

ask tako ninyo kn wat nyo tanaw sako situation rn.. im in a 3 month relationship w/my gf.. things r kindy roughy jd since moody au cya pgkatao.. almost every month mgaway jd mi n hapit matiwas amu relationship, but napadayon namu cuz i can't let go of her and nisabot pd cya.. halos tanan namu away is cuz sa iya mga laag2x.. recently ngtambay pamn gd cya so mkasabot sd ko kay boringan cya sa ilaha den i cant be with her sad all d tym.. pero d ko nahan mulaag cya cuz hadlok ko mkameet cya ug lain, cuz shes very attractive mn gd everytym manlaag mi sa mga bars dghan jd mulingi nya na guys.. in short insecure au ko.. also, i dunu y jd bt usually late na jd na cya uli sahay mabuntagan pa..

last week lng, nilaag cya den ako gitugtan kay i knw shes with hers frens sd.. d next day she told me nga buntag na cya uli na nikuyog clang mgbarkada with an old fren daw.. ako cya gpahbaw na wako nalipay.. d following day kay ngkta me, n nakabasa ko sa iya fone naay nitx na unknown # "tnx 4 ur tym, get home safe" she told me na iya daw old fren. although wala cya nireply. ako cya giask y nihatag cya # she told me na kay old fren lge nya. my question is can i trust wat she told me ba? y would an old fren tx her dat way mn?

please advice.. tnx..

- ma ingon na naa ko ana na stage na ako ang girl but never ko na uli ug buntag ha.. dli man sad ma ingon na laagan ko coz i used to looner man. mka laag ra gd with my istoryans friends, hyskul barkada ug officem8. ok raman cguro mag laag pero dli lng always, murag extension o pa wla sa stress ba kay from monday - friday kay work bya den sat ug sunday ra ang day-off...
- depende man sad na sa situation ug sa mga laag sa girl. maybe dli pa cya ready na naay mo bawal sa iyaha or not used to be in that situation " the bf/gf thing"

[yvonne6]

lain2 man gyud ang mga girls oi, pero para nako, personally ha, if i truly love my guy, i will not do anything nga makapalabad sa iyang ulo. if it makes him unhappy na buntag nako mauli, then i wont do it so that i can prove to him that id be willing to do anything to prove him that i am worthy of his love. i know it sounds martyr but i guess this is how u can gauge how much you can give for love. i believe anything impossible can be made possible kung tinuoray ka gamahal. ambot, hopeless romantic siguro ko but i am exactly like this

[jewel_anne10]

basin problemado ang iyang "old friend" tapos ilang gilingaw kuyog pod sa iyang ubang friends. mao to mutext ug "thanks for your time"... but naa ra nimo if unsa imo buhaton... observe lang bro lisod man pod nga mag jump into conclusion ka.

[mike5]

tnx for ur replies guys..

at 1st mn gd ako jd cya gihigpit, hapit jd mi buwag a2 kay stoper ra kunu au ko.. she needs tym to adjust daw.. now, i cn say niadjust cya but not as much as i wanted btaw.. d man jd cya laagan au, grabeh lng ka moody na kn sapoton cya nahan cya pahungaw mao mulaag cya.. i can say na mejo immature cya nya possessive au ko.. mao na wa na au ko nihigpit nya nisalig nako, bt ang nawad.an ko trust 2ngd jd ato txt..

kamu girls: if naa mu uyab, would you hand out your numbers to some guy?

and guys: unsa nyo interpretation y mutx mu sa girl nyo nameet ug "tnx 4 ur tym, be home safe"

tnx

[KASAAC]

ingon ana naman jud kaha siya katong imu siya na ila2x? wala naka ma hems ana kundi dawaton siya sa iyang pag ka immature kana kung na higugma jud ka...pero tan-aw nmu naka hatag lang ug kahasul ang pakig relasyon nmu sa iyaha...mas maau pa siguro mag buwag nalang mo

[Peace]

@TS:
well, if ingon ani na gani daan iyang lifestyle when you meet her, aw, expected na gyud na nga mag ingon ani sad siya. . .

we dont expect to come in to someone's life then change it cause we want her to be this and that.
let her understand your point and maybe she'll heed it.

if you want her to change, don't expect her to change overnight. . . and besides, change comes within oneself if di siya willing mo change for you, wa jud kay mahimo

[nicronomica]

Bro...


Answer this question:

Do you think she's worth it?

Do you think you'll be able to stand this rouge wave?

Do you think you can change that part of her?

"Sometimes the mistakes we make are the risk that we never take
But most of the time, people make stupid mistakes from stupid risk"

So ask your self is she worth the risk for you?

[arvinbenitez]

saleg lang pero ayaw pag la-um...

ayaw lang ehatag ang 100% nga gugma bro...

God bless u.......

[kurdapia.nikki]

Best ingredient in a relationship is trust and communication.
Meaning, if you have doubts, ask her.
There's nothing wrong with asking about it.
Uyab gud mo. You have all the right to interrogate about it.
Trust, ayaw lang sad kaayo ka praning.
There really are girls nga naa ju'y mga ing'ana.
BUT without their boyfriends awareness, the guy they truly love
is their own guy.

There really are girls malambing sa guys.
Basin you're girlfriend's one of those Brad. Hehe.
Just go ask her. Just don't be praning.
Do not think ahead sad.

[kenites]

ayaw ka insecure bro..if gwapa imo GF..gwapo man pud kaha ka

bitaw bro seriously..murag immature pa cguro imo GF, hilig pa night life..
Nakakuyog naman kaha ka sa iya with her friends? Unsa man tan-aw nimo sa iya mga friends?
Birds with the same feather is bird man daw...aw flocks together diay..
Makasalig man pud kaha ka sa iya mga friends,, or common ba inyo mga friends?