She said yes but not now lang sa daw~ what's the meaning?

[highrise]

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do u mind 2 share 8 wit us para mkabalo mi kng naa pa syay filings sa x nya or ur rili fri 2 take over ky ana mn jd ng bae mglibog pa at 1st...

possessive kuno kaayo iyang ex (our friend told me). natuok siya considering nga busy kaayo siya sa iyang work.

we are getting along very well actually lately. and she knows my intentions and that im sincere and serious. we are seeing each other very often.

just something that i thought lately. should i pop the question once again or should i just wait for her to open it up na lang (just in case if it's really a sweet "yes")? i know this is a very simple but i just want some insights. i know different people here have different POVs regarding this matter. i am just soliciting advices.

[handsoff241]

Tol, your friend just mentioned nga possessive iyang ex, don't give her the motive into thinking nga ingun ana pud ka once sugton ka niya, just give her enough time, away lang pud pugsa or e-rush pag-ayo.

just maintain your relationship right now as "exclusive daters" maintain the pace and as much as possible avoid popping that question again, not unless if she shows signs of "go signals".


-kung sugton ka..blowout icecream sa tanan nag post diri hap.

[flanker]

Mao na tawag probationary period wahehehe.

hahahah! ataka... 3 months nga probationary period..


Its more on companionship than commitment..

[estoyra]

jst stay wit her bro, txt n vsit her alwys para focus na sya nmo ug dli na sya kahuna2 sa iya x...
how far na d i mo sa getting-to-know phase bro?
did she tok 2 u bwt her x?
wen u go out mkahold hand nka nya?
wen u watch movies can u make "agbay" na?
or maybe kis her ig hatod nmo nya?
bsig igo raka sturya bro? maybe she mis dows thngs they use 2 do sa iya bf so uve 2 b der 2 rplace d empty position dba...

[highrise]

just maintain your relationship right now as "exclusive daters" maintain the pace and as much as possible avoid popping that question again, not unless if she shows signs of "go signals".

actually after i first asked her, mas close na mi. we spent more time together and even met her cousin and hang out with them.

jst stay wit her bro, txt n vsit her alwys para focus na sya nmo ug dli na sya kahuna2 sa iya x...
how far na d i mo sa getting-to-know phase bro?
did she tok 2 u bwt her x?
wen u go out mkahold hand nka nya?
wen u watch movies can u make "agbay" na?
or maybe kis her ig hatod nmo nya?
bsig igo raka sturya bro? maybe she mis dows thngs they use 2 do sa iya bf so uve 2 b der 2 rplace d empty position dba...

almost 3 months pa mi kaila but lately we're seeing and going out a lot, just the two of us. sundoon nako sa work during weekdays then during weekends, we go out. both of us have already opened up about sa among mga ex but not that deep though, murag tip of the iceberg lang about sa among mga past relationships.

regarding those things, actually, im not really the type of person who does that. we go out a lot, watch movies, sabay magdinner, and go out with friends. our friend told me nga "sigurista" daw siya. i mean she does not want to get into any relationship just because of the heck of it. but i am seeing some "signs". we are actually closer now after a few days that i asked her.

but i'd consider doing those just to gauge kung asa na gyud ko dapit. sa una man gud buhaton ra nako na kung uyab na nako.

i am actually thinking about giving it 3 more weeks or maybe a month and ask her again. tama ba na or should i wait lang nga siya mosulti without me asking?

[handsoff241]

^My two cents is... you should wait until she gives signs that will tell you nga pwede na, just be sensitive and be wise in interpreting those signs...

haalla exciting murag koreanovela.. char

[crstina]

just make sure you make her feel that your always there for her..
if mkrecover na xa, then evrything will be alright between you and her

[estoyra]

aw dats gud sad respetaran nmo sya ky bsig mabulilyaso na nuon...
gud as sold nka ana bro ky u met her cousins na pla... iya igsuon or parents?
by d way napailaila na nmo sya sa famly nmo? dat way mn gud mas mkatabng pra mkaingon jd sya nga limpyo imo intentions dba?
yap sak2 sad bro giv 8 anader 3wks or so den by dat tym super clos na au mo bsi redy na sya 4 u 2 b her nxt bf...

[GOthique]

@TS: yeah.. you should wait for her if she's ready for another commitment ..just take it easy..be patient enough to wait..after all it's worth it..

[highrise]

aw dats gud sad respetaran nmo sya ky bsig mabulilyaso na nuon...
gud as sold nka ana bro ky u met her cousins na pla... iya igsuon or parents?
by d way napailaila na nmo sya sa famly nmo? dat way mn gud mas mkatabng pra mkaingon jd sya nga limpyo imo intentions dba?
yap sak2 sad bro giv 8 anader 3wks or so den by dat tym super clos na au mo bsi redy na sya 4 u 2 b her nxt bf...

actually just one of her very close cousins akong nameet. gipakuyog man ko niya suroy2 pag anhi sa iyang cousin. she also met one of my cousins but that was way before nanguyab ko niya. sa parents, wala pa and she haven't met my parents either. wala man gud among mga parents diri sa cebu.hehe. aside from relatives, i have also met some of her close friends. so far, ok man.

i think she has already gotten over her ex. maklaro na man nga nausab na siya karon compared a few weeks before. i mean before mokalit lang ug tulala but now dili na, she's jolly now.

@TS: yeah.. you should wait for her if she's ready for another commitment ..just take it easy..be patient enough to wait..after all it's worth it..

finally, a female.hehe. should i ask her again or should i wait nga siya na lang moopen up? from a female's point of view. actually, we're getting closer day after day. we talk a lot and meet friends and relatives. i guess it's safe to say nga "kami" na minus the formal "yes".

she usually open up to our common friend and our friend in turn tells me some of the things that she's been telling her. so far, everything is positive.