TO MARRY or TO STAY SINGLE for LIFETIME?

[beyee]

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I only had this urge to settle down when I was in a relationship
for years but simply fizzled out when it didn't work out and no
matter how much peeps are pressuring me to have a family of
my own, I have lost the drive to be with someone this time.

It's not that I haven't moved on from my last one but having
one scares me though it gets lonely sometimes. However, my
new outlook in life simply outweighs the loneliness... I am more
happy and contented now

[noy]

sakto ka @beyee!
Me, i got married at the early age and have experienced difficulties which took me and my wife a lot of adjustments. Daghan trials naagian but still hanging on. The only thing that binds us is the love and grace of God which sufficiently filled our relationship and our family daily.

..of which i'm very thankful.

ana jud bro...basta Ginoo centro..impossible jud nga way magpa ubos...
and kung magpa-ubos ang usa evrytime naay lalis...solved ang almost 90% nga problema..hahaha

[naxi85]

today, only for today, i'll say; i want to stay single for a lifetime.

[brian joshua]

married...had minor adjustments only, thinking that we have different insights about religion...

encroachments about financial aspect didn't even bother us, because we're both working hard for "us"....

[kentoy0224]

having failed relationships doesn't mean it deters you to be in a lifelong relationship. the only thing thats scary is having to look back 30-40 yrs from now and no one to share your life with perhaps maybe a dog and a couple of cats. it's always nice and fulfilling to have someone by your side sharing companionship when you reach "retirement" age.

i'm all for marriage. having kids, grandkids, it's a legacy of what you have earned in your life that you can pass through to the next generation which will be carrying your name. if you get scared just because you have been hurt once or twice before, then you'll never know how your parents felt the day they held you in their arms and look into your tiny eyes and think..."welcome to earth little angel".

[beyee]

hahaha! know what you mean kent

I believe it's how we perceive of what fulfills us in our life.
For some they are born to be molding a family of their own
and for some who are meant to take a backseat and be an
instrument of someone else's kids' formation... either way
that makes him/her happy

A failed relationship is somewhat a blessing in disguise (yes,
I have realized that lately lols) that guides you where you're
supposed to go in the future... that is to settle down or stay
blissfully single

[kentoy0224]

^^ spoken like a true (kids) mentor

those students of yours are damn lucky to have you as a teacher Bey

[LaBelleza]

All for it!

The prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said: “No house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through marriage.”

[digitalartistbem]

I'll try to answer this one. This is my own principle lng ha.

If bound jud ka for marriage muabot rana ang tao para nimo in the perfect time, perfect place, perfect moment. Magkasinabot mo ug dali. Walay2x bulag2x.

Pero if not, or if dili ka bound for marriage then pwede ka makauyab or dili, minyo or dli, live in or whatever without any contentment at all.

But my suggestion is:

Much better jud if stay single lng ka if dli ka gusto ug samok sa life. - This is a Christian's point of view. Check gani ang I corinthians 7:25.

[muchacha00]

once nga single paka... gusto ka mag minyo...

but when time nga na minyo naka gusto ka mag single napud....