The Mentality

[esotericlove]

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its up to u to let go and learn to forget.. di ko mutuo ana di ka ma forget.. u can if u let urself do it.. at first lang na but as time goes by mawala ra na..learn to love yourself again and let go of that person..take it from me nakasulay nako ana..no need of someone to replace..just be happy and stay happy..maktawa nalang ka later kung maka let go naka..it will take time...but u will for sure..

[bowee]

first thing in all broken relationship is - TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!..

WHY? you can't learn to love someone new if you don't cherish and love yourself back in the first place.
when you love and lost someone, you lost a part of yourself to that person as well.. reclaiming that lost person in you (by loving yourself back) is one way to gain trust and confidence in loving another person again.

[treize]

panakipbutas diay?

[annerhexian]

"You can't forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It's impossible, unless you learn to love somebody else."


*should you really love someone for you to forget the previous one?
*can't you solve your own problem dealing with the aftermath of such turn-over?
*how can you love someone when your feelings are still bottled up with the previous? So, labas ana panakip-butas ang sunod?

I've been bombarded by some people with this concern and somehow it has caught my attention to the point that I started to question the kind of mentality set that they have.

Share your insights.

should you really love someone for you to forget the previous one? :NO, but I learn to appreciate people around me.. but loving them in a deeper sense is like digging history than the outer one..
*can't you solve your own problem dealing with the aftermath of such turn-over? - I can solve my own.. just recently.. I think, it is the mentality and depression can drive us insane and if I cant maneuvered that kind of feeling then least I can do is get used to the feeling... Its not how try we can diminish the problem but maybe counter it with positive inputs.. There is more to life.. and thats we have to discover along the way..
*how can you love someone when your feelings are still bottled up with the previous? So, labas ana panakip-butas ang sunod? - This is the meanest thing to the next person... especially if you show some affections that can lead to misunderstanding.. I wont do this jud.. Malooi ko sa panakip butas and more to that, mas malooy ko sa ako self coz I do that kind of unreasonable thing.. Too bad,.. sometimes this kind of situation fail...

in a world of harsh reality mixed up with truth, experience is the best teacher for we are equipped to learn things..... sometimes that can lead us to cold person we are made of ...

sa tinuoray lang, kasuka on nako anang gugma2 na term.. HAHHAHA

I better learn to love myself.. and maybe along the way.. I can learn life in a better way...

[charmz_fire]

"You can't forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It's impossible, unless you learn to love somebody else."

wen u love someone new,.it doesnt mean
kalimot nkas daan,.

maybe u just move on,. but not forget jud,.becoz memories remain baya
bisan unsaon!

[nijazared]

Forgetting is impossible...moving on is completely possible without loving somebody else...somehow, that person will always be a part of your life no matter what you do, it is all just a matter of how you make him affect your life in the future...moving on without finding somebody new takes courage and determination, in a way, finding a "panakip-butas" is just like a diversion, temporary solution or a pain-reliever...the pain is there, but you just never feel it...pagka wala sa "panakip-butas", you might just end up at the start again...

[Cory1986]

Take a time off in any romantic relationship. just give time to discover yourself.
How can u love others if u dont love yourself.
Love yourself and then love others kay when the time comes that they will leave, ato ra jd self ang mag pa bilin.

It's nice to be single.
I own the world

[hbert]

makakita gani ka ug bag o,move on na kunuhay,,hehe.but whats in the past nimu..still ma remember jud na oi...but atleast d na kaau basta naa naka bag o...

[emjee17]

HEHE. thanks sa insights..

really appreciated!

[kimleeKINO_choi]

"You can't forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It's impossible, unless you learn to love somebody else."


*should you really love someone for you to forget the previous one? --in my case..not necessary
*can't you solve your own problem dealing with the aftermath of such turn-over? --i had solve it..in the future i will **whew! goodluck to me!**
*how can you love someone when your feelings are still bottled up with the previous? So, labas ana panakip-butas ang sunod? --ingon ana mnjud na kai dli mn basta nalang mawala ang feelings sa tao nga imo gi love much.

I've been bombarded by some people with this concern and somehow it has caught my attention to the point that I started to question the kind of mentality set that they have.

Share your insights.

dapat pod dawat sa person nga ngadjust pka niya.