HELP I'm in the grayest area of love and friendship

[cottonmouth]

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BATOY ka! way lalis...kinsa gud nga normal na lalaki ganahan ug laki more than friends...yucks sad nimo oi...way unay.

Anyway, maybe being a gay is abnormal but it is not a sin. It only becomes a sin against God and the law if you engage in what gay always does...same ***.

If you feel like you're gay, well then accept it. Just dont have same *** relationships coz by then you are no longer a fair play.

[ronzenajes]

i guess your gay.. and karon lang ka naka discover...
huhuhu if mapugngan ayaw tawon pagbayot2x kai gamay nalang laki..hehheh

[panganod]

this is interesting. why don't you try these:

- if the 3 of you are on top of a building and both of them falls off. who are u going to try to save first. the first answer to pop in ur head is ur most probable choice.
-when u jerk off, which of the two do u have in mind and whose name do u call out? if not, how frequent do u imagine doing the dirty to one of ur friends. ~no offense, i just think this is practical.

[cp103]

basically, the root cause of this problem of yours is the lack of acceptance. You know what, in every problem that we encounter, there are a lot of facts that we have to take into consideration, now, some of those facts can be hard to swallow or accept, so we tend to deny to ourselves those facts just for the sake of convenience, yes it would be convenient but only to a certain extent, eventually what will happen is that those problems will definitely resurface one way or another.

The reason I'm talking about acceptance is because it is clear that you can't accept the fact that your gay or should i say bisexual... Anyway, the 1st thing that you need to do is to find it in yourself to accept who you really are. If you do that, everything will be much easier to deal with.

[balthier_bunanza]

@lecreigh: i thot lagi na ni care ko about niya as a close guy friend ra. pero weird kaayo, kay i need to be with him always man gyud. i can't be bakla, diba naa man gyud nay something mahitabo sa usa ka guy na traumatic para mabayot siya? akoa kay wala man. nikalit lang.

@gnox: i'm 22. grabi ka konpyused akong stage ron. dili lagi pwede na silang duha. ok ra kaayo they do the deed with other people ayaw lang sila, mabiya-an ko. i can't live with that.

@cottonmouth: lol. mao pud na akong mindset sa una. basta laki ganahan ug laing laki, bayot gyud na. pero nagsugod nako ug kalibog kay naa man diay matang sa nilalang nga gitawag ug dobol blade. nalibog nalang nuon ko. i'm not into religion that much, mao na dili kaayo ko mu-delve into topics like if makasala baka ana or dili.

@ronzenajes: dili manko bayot tan-awn. sa tinuoray, dili ko taw tan-awon. yagit ko. ganahan ko laag sa dagat. adto pasil kaon linarang. dota diri, inom didto. ingun-ana gud.

@panganod: hala, ako ni tubagon:
1 = akong i-save akong bespren na laki.
2 = i watch straight / lesbian porn, pero akong tawagon ang name nilang duha. puli2x. luora.

@cp103: naglisod ko ug sabot sa english oi! ahaha! pero sakto ka. it's been running in my mind these past few months. ang akong lack of acceptance. pero does it mean na maka-get over ko nilang duha if i learn to accept kung kinsa ko? diba dili man?

[histrionic0311]

@balthier: you have to adjust to your situation now, since we are growing up as individuals. and of course you should think of yourself first, because your friends would come second. just follow what your heart tells you.. sakto ang gi.ingon ni madredrive na under ka sa identity vs. role confusion. that kind of developmental stage is normal, and it will wear off when you reach as a young adult. in the meantime, you should focus on yourself and tell yourself if are you courageous or confident enough to face to your friends on what you feel towards them. that's all i can say

[jlodarl]

hmmm.. you need to analyze. if girl ba jud or laki.. maybe you just care and love your guy friend.. or just like a brother.. and maybe you love your girl friend na more than just friend..

[January]

just as what i have read in a book, there are two wolves within each of us. .the one which you will feed the most, will remain strong. . when you leave the other one hungry, it will remain weak. . .since you are a guy, i think you should feed your feelings for the girl since she is of the opposite ***. . whatever you feel for your guy friend, let it remain just as a feeling. . you are already troubled with that feeling, acting on it will cause you more trouble. . .also, you may want to enlarge you circle of friends ky you might have become too dependent on these two. . .and it is no longer healthy for you. . in the end, follow what really is right, it may prove difficult but it has its own rewards in the end. . .

[smooth]

just as what i have read in a book, there are two wolves within each of us. .the one which you will feed the most, will remain strong. . when you leave the other one hungry, it will remain weak. . .since you are a guy, i think you should feed your feelings for the girl since she is of the opposite ***. . whatever you feel for your guy friend, let it remain just as a feeling. . you are already troubled with that feeling, acting on it will cause you more trouble. . .also, you may want to enlarge you circle of friends ky you might have become too dependent on these two. . .and it is no longer healthy for you. . in the end, follow what really is right, it may prove difficult but it has its own rewards in the end. . .

i have my own opinions about you but i guess this sums it up perfectly. What you feed becomes stonger.
If luoran ka mag think ug laki then don't think bout it. If you want the best of both worlds, then you're Bi.
k raman pud na. daghan naman na sila. gud luck!

[lecreigh]

daghan naman na sila.

daghan jud! pero my friend, chosoe ur friends carefully cos grabe kaau ang peer pressure/ influence karong mga panahona... i suggest you go with real guys jud. okis?Ü