Lingam massage "not bringing a good name to Cebu"

[ritsche villadolid]

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Hehe ... pero kuyaw na bro kay lagi matud pa sa balita, nag ka daghan ang mga HIV Positive cases sa Cebu karon ... lisod ug matakdan labi na kung di kaila ang ka partner.

if makeg *** ka na wala protection delekado gyud, mas maayo pa lingam kay safe pa relax pa ang entire body

[farmboy]

if makeg *** ka na wala protection delekado gyud, mas maayo pa lingam kay safe pa relax pa ang entire body

di diay same ang lingam sa self service sir?

[sharkey360]

A local wife from Banilad had her letter published in today's Sun.Star Cebu (Opinion section). It's a vote of support for Lingam massage. The letter is titled "For lingam"

Read it today if you find a copy of the Sun.Star Cebu.

[samsungster]

A local wife from Banilad had her letter published in today's Sun.Star Cebu (Opinion section). It's a vote of support for Lingam massage. The letter is titled "For lingam"

Read it today if you find a copy of the Sun.Star Cebu.

she is good wife. i salute you mrs!

[sharkey360]

she is good wife. i salute you mrs!

You read the paper? You know that person?

[darsmith13]

gibalita karon lang, close na ang tyuba tyuba

[itwasnme]

thats funny... even if they shut the places down like chuva chuva or authentic lingam, whats to stop the actual massage parlors that do give extra service from offering lingam? Or does no one know these parlors exist?

It will just make way for more and new massage parlors to open up with different names yet offer lingam discreetly just like they offer extra service.

So now what?

[Sand Man]

Prostitution has been around since the Biblical times that one can safely say it's already part of society. The efforts to stymie prostitution in it's raw form has caused it to evolve into something like "Lingam Massage". Stop lingam massage and prostitution will just simply evolve into something else.

Regulate, anyone?

[drake_23m_ph]

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[sharkey360]

Bong O. Wenceslao talks about Lingam massage and relates to the letter written by a local wife that got published yesterday in Sun.Star Cebu

FORGIVE the ignorance, but frankly I didn’t know that the lingam has its counterpart in the yoni until I read Richie D. Nolasco’s letter published in Sun.Star Cebu yesterday.

The ignorance stems from the fact that yoni massage has yet to invade our shores.

Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. It is loosely translated as “sacred space” or “sacred temple” (whitelotuseast.com). And if there is a lingam massage, there is also such a thing as yoni massage.

Here’s where our macho culture is unfair. Why are establishments offering lingam massage sprouting in Cebu while nobody is bothering about the yoni? Are men the only ones who want their sexual organs subjected to this form of relaxation and pleasure? Do massage parlor owners think men are the only ones capable of paying for such kind of service?

This unfairness extends to the debate on whether to allow lingam massage parlors to continue operating here or not.

Those who are for or against lingam massage are talking about the men. Largely forgotten are the attendants or masseuses, who perhaps are the ones suffering from exploitation and abuse, both physical and psychological.

The only mention in reports about lingam massage attendants is in relation to how they should conduct themselves while doing their thing. One lingam spa owner said they require their attendants to wear “proper” clothes and not skimpy outfits.

Clients are told not to touch the attendants.

I reckon the attendants are Filipinas who grew up in a culture different from the one where the lingam massage originated.

It is therefore interesting to find out the effect the job of fondling (okay, massaging) a number of lingams of different forms and sizes daily has on them.

This is aside from attendants fending off clients’ sexual advances and suffering from the indignity of cleaning their hands or their work areas if clients ejaculated. I am only referring here to the “professional” lingam masseuse and not the prostitutes who are fronting as lingam massage attendants.

In a country like ours, accepting a job is often a “kapit sa patalim” undertaking.

Filipino women may accept the job of massaging lingams, but it does not mean they are happily accepting the indignities they have to go through. This point should be considered in discussing the legitimacy of the operation of lingam massage parlors.

Wenceslao: Lingam and women | Sun.Star Network Online

Unlike the moral hypocrites, the columnist admitted ignorance about Yoni massage and went on to learn about it at WhiteLotusEast.com

As for the part about attendants/masseuses working in Lingam joints, my research confirms that the women working in Chuva-Chuva and ALM are professional and well treated, even protected.

I can't say the same about the women working in the cheap and sleazy massage parlors where sexual intercourse and other risky services are offered. Come to think of it, the local authorities are too focused on anything Lingam and they allow these cheap and sleazy massage parlors (where whores are present) to prosper.

Meanwhile, those who have yet to understand Lingam massage and its related massages should study the articles at

http://www.whitelotuseast.com
http://www.lingammassageventure.com/...&id=7&Itemid=8