HELP How can I help her get over her Ex-?

[archspace]

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i met this girl.. and i like her then im courting her.. but unfortunately she just broke up with his bf... so i still go out with her trying to make her forget and like me instead.. months pass and we are still going out.. and now the EX wants her back.. but she told me she like me better na but cant answer me coz she is still not OVER/HEALED with the past one... but with the way things are going between us.. mura na ug bf-gf thing.. just not official.. but somehow.. naa pa sila commu sa iya EX.. which bothers me A LOT... haizzzzz... what to do??

[journeyman]

Hmmm... lisod bitaw nang sitwasyuna brod. Just don't force the issue lang brod. I mean, at least she starts to like you. As usual lang ba. If she's meant to be yours diha ra man gihapun na paingon.

[archspace]

although ibutang nato ug MU (murag uyab) pero murag makasamok man gd sa ako huna2x while they still commu... lain kaau sa pamati ba... plus makabasa pa ko sa comments sa EX.. mura kog g tuok... but IF the girl dli pod nahan nako.. why the heck would she do things for me na uyab rai mo buhat?? (not *** ok?? like ad2on jd ko niya basan kapoi siya) stuffs like that...

[drsweet]

i guess you have the right to tell her that youre not comfortable with the situation youre both in right now.. you were hangging and u dont know where to stand in her life.. I know she needs time to heal but i think its not right for her to keep you waiting and hoping if she's really not ready to move on. one of the reason why girls have a hard time moving on is if we still have feelings for our past love.. its been months and you said that she already admitted that she likes you more than her ex, if that's what she really feels then she should have given you a clear answer by now.

well as they say lover sees but doesnt mind.. its up for you.. if you dont want to confront her abt this issue.. then just wait and love her but never expect.

[archspace]

same as what my good friend tells me just "love but dont expect"
i told her about this.. and she tells me its up to me.. ok.. i get that part.. but dli man pod na ana lng ka dali... after all we have GOOD moments too... pero how come shes making me feel na im impt (ok she told me actually) pero lain kaau kai dli sya mo cut off sa link sa iya bf... im thinking na shes still attached to that guy.. but she keeps on complaining how she got hurt.. haiz.. naglibog nko.. and here i am.. doin all things opposite... pity pity...

[aLohaBby]

just give her time bro... i think she's not ready to make commitments kay wa pa jud na ma heal ang pain she got from his ex... at least, wala pa ka niya gisugot nga ing-ana inyo situation kay mahulog nga gihimo kag panakip butas... nangita ra guro na siya ug comfort and she found the kind of treatment she needed in you.... so since love man nmo siya, just wait and be there for her..that is if kaya pa nimo...

[archspace]

hmmmmmm... well said aloha... LOVE = PATIENCE indeed....

[jlodarl]

ayaw lang sa i think na mura na mo ug uyab... treat her like friend gihapon.. para dili ka masakitan unya.. but just stay beside here and always be there for her... na libog pa na xa.. just give her enough time..

[archspace]

ok bro... noted... btw bsta magexpect na gud mo sugod ang sakit..

[windfara]

let the girl clear her mind first. . .don't rush her . . .and in your part if you want to be in her side ,stay. . but don't expect to much coz you might get hurt in the end. . .