
Originally Posted by
high_heels
Akoa lang sad ni i highlight nga personal experience ha for the sake of the younger men, the mature men, and for my fellow ladies....
Sa panahong single pa ko, I had this suitor who was the same age as me. Yes, he is a working professional. Maningkamot gyud to siya ug panguyab nga murag traditional kaayo ug ways. Makig kuyog ug simba on a Sunday (which I considered to be a sweet gesture, but my Gaaaaad!!! Murag hearing mass together is more intimate compared to s@x, so I refused those invites). He would offer to accompany me to do my groceries, bahala na daw mag kuyog kuyog siya nako to do my errands basta daw mag kuyog daw me. At times I get invited to go with him sa ilang province then pa ila ila daw ko sa iyang mother (Ako sad, kay yikes!!! Di pa gani uyab, ipa ila ila naman ta daan). I already knew nga mismatch gyud mi duha despite his typical maginoo attitude. But I gave him the benefit of a doubt and gave him a chance. I acknowledged his efforts of cultivating his relationship with me. So after pila ka months niyang pangulit, I said yes to an invitation to go out on a "date" with him. Initially, he said siya ra daw gasto sa among "date", so despite of me having cash that time wala lang sad ko nagpa gawas sa akong moolah in respect to his request.
Ang ending, napunta gyud tawon mi sa mabugnaw nga lugar.
Upon check out, I noticed it took him awhile to get back to the room boy when he was handed over the bill. As it turns out, short intawon iyang budget. So, nangutang intawon siya nako para maka gawas lang mi and I had to pay for the cab, plus I gave him a little extra to spend for himself because according to him, na ZERO na daw siya. Which for me personally, was ok.
I saw him as someone who was eager to spend for his stuff, latest gadgets, weekend drinks with friends, etc.. etc.. etc... Maka dawat na gani ug sweldo, sus pusot pusot ang gasto. Bahalag mo stay siya sa nagka huot nga room with 3 other boardmates in a boarding house basta latest lang iyang cellphone. That incident between me and him at that "COLD" place in a matching "COLD" predicament was a confirmation that he is NOT EMOTIONALLY, FINANCIALLY ready. At the same time, his outlook towards finances and his level of responsibility was not at par to mine. So, coming from that situation..... Do you think we are the "perfect match"? From my point of view, I don't think so.