should i wait or should i leave?

[LeeLeePot]

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we have been a happy couple for five years and we've been proud to have withstood all the challenges that every young couple would've gone. except this....


i went home one day and he was waiting for me. he said he wants to tell me something important. so i sat beside him and asked him what's eating him up and, out-of-the-blue, he said he wants to let me go....pak!

i asked him why and since he was a silent man, he didn't tell me what it was until recently when the stormed calmed down...he told me that he met an old acquaintance sa office and had a chitchat and suddenly dropped a bomb about him having a child to a woman he barely knew who had been his one week fling months before he met me. the kid was already 5 years old. it was pure teenage lust. he said he'd let me go because "basi madamay ko" (his exact words). i was like damay ko from what? naa bay muaway nako? waa man koi labot kung naa xai anak.ok ra man sa ako...i cried and suffered for three days and begged him to change his mind because he can't simply throw our five years away just because of a kid unless nlan he would be eaten by responsibility and would want to marry the girl he impregnated five years ago...tsssk! i was really broken... he said he wants me to wait and he wants me to keep off the bay... curious hinuon ko if he would keep his word nga mubalik xa.i said i can wait but not forever. i gave him two months to sort it out...

but really, in this case, should i wait or just let go?

[ayki]

how is he even sure that the child is his? basin excuse rana niya ha....

[LeeLeePot]

how is he even sure that the child is his? basin excuse rana niya ha....

mao pud gud naa sa akong mind...makafrustrate kai fragments ra akong makuha nia kai he doesn't like to talk about it kai basi daw musamot ra kog layo nia...(his exact words again)...

[walker]

we have been a happy couple for five years and we've been proud to have withstood all the challenges that every young couple would've gone. except this....

i have to assume that your partner is one honest and true man because to have withstood challenges for five years is one big feat to accomplish to be a fake.

i think it is hard and may hurt a lot, but you have to give him his two months to sort things out for himself. this time, he will prove himself more true than you ever see him. otherwise, just be strong.

love is always stronger than pain. and if you love him that much, you can love yourself more.

[twistedANGEL25]

Just give hime time and wait...Basin sa iyang part,clouded pa sad kaayo iyang utok due to that fact na kalit2x ra siya nakabalo nga naa diay siya'y anak...Just let him know that him having a kid doesn't change what you feel for him, and that you don't mind that he has a kid.

[LeeLeePot]

lage magwait ko ani..ang gikalainan lan nako kai magmove out na unta ko sa apartment nga gpuy-an namu kai we were"housemates" kaso gpugngan kos amaw..ana xa July nlan daw...i really don't know what's running in his head...i wanted to ask but everytime i want to he would just tell me na i should not ask him questions yet kung dili daw ko gusto mahilayo nia...i really don't know what storm he's brewing up in his head....gaaaah!

[kimleeKINO_choi]

we have been a happy couple for five years and we've been proud to have withstood all the challenges that every young couple would've gone. except this....


i went home one day and he was waiting for me. he said he wants to tell me something important. so i sat beside him and asked him what's eating him up and, out-of-the-blue, he said he wants to let me go....pak!

i asked him why and since he was a silent man, he didn't tell me what it was until recently when the stormed calmed down...he told me that he met an old acquaintance sa office and had a chitchat and suddenly dropped a bomb about him having a child to a woman he barely knew who had been his one week fling months before he met me. the kid was already 5 years old. it was pure teenage lust. he said he'd let me go because "basi madamay ko" (his exact words). i was like damay ko from what? naa bay muaway nako? waa man koi labot kung naa xai anak.ok ra man sa ako...i cried and suffered for three days and begged him to change his mind because he can't simply throw our five years away just because of a kid unless nlan he would be eaten by responsibility and would want to marry the girl he impregnated five years ago...tsssk! i was really broken... he said he wants me to wait and he wants me to keep off the bay... curious hinuon ko if he would keep his word nga mubalik xa.i said i can wait but not forever. i gave him two months to sort it out...

but really, in this case, should i wait or just let go?

Is he sure that child is his?
inyong story TS kai murag sa isa ka taiwanese drama. Nga mao ako gi watch pod ron. heheh pati ang age sa bata kai mao pod.. 5y.o..heheh
nweiz, IMO mg wait ko. Why? so what kong naa syai anak? Ang anak raman iya obligation dli mn pati ang mother sa bata. Depende nalang kong gnhan sya pakaslan ang mother sa child.

[alfalfa]

move on TS. storya ra na. as a guy, mangita jud ko palusot.....either you're too good for me or you deserve someone better or...gee naa diay koy anak sa lain. unya naglibog ko dili ko gusto maangin ka! can you let me go? WTF! even if these all happened to me, i love you and all these were all from the past, i won't let you go if you will still accept me. pagdahum pero ayaw laom!

[legal_cd]

confused rana imong ex as of this time, give him time and let him clear his mind.

[Genocide]

space. hatag ug time pa relax sa mind.