Dili ni siya problema. gusto lang nako i share ang usa ka very special kind of friendship I have with someone. Nagsugod mi ug communication back in early 2000, mga 2003 siguro, mirc pa ang uso niadto. we gave each other's yahoo messenger and chatted once in a while. Wala lang to nako siya seryosoha kay aside nga taga layo (Iligan), i am with my son's dad at that time. pero over the years, sige lang gihapon mi ug contact. wala gani kaau ko ka remember sa iyang pangalan basta kay ug mag online siya sa ym, mag chat mi. this went on for few years, infact a decade na karon. in 2009 or 2010, i experienced really troubled financial situation. ato nga time, student pa siya sa nursing, although 2nd course niya. wala jud ko mag expect nga mo offer siya ug help nako financially. its not a very big amount of money as he was just a student, but it helped. ang condition pa niya, pay me when you can. the communication continued but we have never met in person. atong naka send siya nako ug money, didto pa nako clearly na remember iyang name. from then, wala nako makalimot sa iyang name and we exchanged cellphone numbers na. from time to time, manawag siya mangumusta. since he is 10 years younger than me, nalingaw na lang pud kog tawag niya ug langga, our term of endearment.
fast forward gamay kay taas kaau...few times, he came to Cebu kay dinha sila nag ojt sa Vicente Sotto hosp but I never met him kay naa pa man koy bf ato nga time. dili ko gusto makasaway akong bf at that time nga kita2 kog lain. im super faithful jud. many times ni hangyo ni siya makigkita nako, i refused. Aug of 2012, nag break mi for good sa akong almost 8 year bf. wala na jud mi nagbalik after that but kani si Iligan guy is still communicating. In 2010, he took his nursing board the first time. I went to Simala para idagkot iyang pag board, unfortunately, he didnt make it pero nag take siya balik and nakapasar. Now, he is working sa usa sa dagko na hosp sa Iligan. I paid him back what I owed him only in 2011.
Aug of 2013, he was to be sent here in Manila for convention. That should have been our first meeting after about 10 years of chatting. We were both very excited but nag habagat diri sa Manila and its flooded everywhere. His flight was canceled and wala mi nadayun ug kita. We were both sad with what happened. Nag sabot mi magkita na lang mi another time pero wala mi sure kanus a kay of course ang budget and everything. In December of 2013, nagka chat mi, ingon siya, langga, when man jud ta magkita? Ikaw, ana ko. When man nimo gusto? Sa January ana siya. Mag leave daw siya. So, we planned everything. Nagtigum jud intawn. Pila ramay sueldo sa nurse sa province but he sent me money para ma book nako ang ticket for January kay padulong siya duty, naka promo man ang ticket.
And the days were from Jan 21-25, ari siyag Manila. First time of seeing each other after 10 years. I told him, I totally looked different now from back then kay nanambok nako pag au, labi na nga nibalik kog call center work but he said, I dont care, I still want to meet you. Ako siya gisugat sa old Domestic Airport and totally our first meeting ever! We had our dinner at Gerry's Grill sa Cubao Araneta Center, perti namo tabi and we stayed in a nearby hotel na lang pud. If there was intimacy? yes. Im no longer with anyone bitaw and he has been special all along man sad.
We had so much fun the whole 5 days. I took him to Tagaytay overnight, we went shopping sa Greenhills, we had buffet here and there, of course he visited where I lived and met my kids. Im just simply amazed that he was still there even with the length of time that has passed. Ulitaw ang guy if people are curious as I dont entertain married men.
I enjoyed his company so much. He was very down to earth and dili hambug. Typical probinsyano guy and was very shy pa gani. I was a bit sad 5 days were over but we kept our communication. We are planning another adventure sa May, sa Boracay, hope we can both have leaves ana nga time.
Im sharing this as a lot of us are lonely and looking for someone to make us feel special but naay mga taw nga nag care na nato siguro for a long time but busy ta looking for someone else or we were with the wrong person. I wasted such a long time with my ex hoping he would change, he only got worse and maski ang current gf karon perting kunsimisyuna.
This long time friend of mine is really a bf material. Before he bought something for himself, he first bought dusters for his mom. He even wanted to buy her undies pero maulaw siya mo ask sa sales lady. His mom has always been a single mom and he has not met his father so he can completely understand my being a single mom. Naka ana jud ko, where have u been all my life man oi. haha
Now, he is back in Iligan and I kept thinking about the short vacation we had. It was really special. Grabe enjoy kaau mi nga mura mig mga bata. We took rides sa Sky Ranch sa Tagaytay and was both chilling and shaking pagka gabii na tungod sa katugnaw. haha.
Girls/Boys, basig naa ra diay sa duol ninyo ang taw nga tinuoray ga value sa inyoha. Dont look any further. Although, he is not my boyfriend yet kay hadlok pako mo commit but we definitely have something special going on. Cant keep my happiness. Just sharing
Amazing friendship, tested through time
Originally Posted by THE KID
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