complicated relationship between my BF and his EX.

[keikoyoon]

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I have boyfriend who used to have a live-in partner for a very long time. They have an 8 year old son. Although we're in a relationship for not quite long, they're still living together at his family's house. Of course I trust him, but trusting is not enough knowing that anything is possible to happen. It's not new to me since we used to be friends before we decided to be in a relationship. We've already talked about this but I always don't get his opinion. I know he's scared coz every parent wants to keep their child, I could understand that. But the thing is, he doesn't have enough courage to talk to his ex personally about our relationship, about me, about him, about everything. His ex knows that he's seeing someone of course. (Maybe she just doesn't want to leave the place). That's where I get my tantrums over him. I begin to stop communicating him without giving him reason WHY, I tend to be moody giving him the sign that I'd mad at him. Maybe men and women do really have different thinking. I tend to be paranoid whenever he's at his home. I can't even talk to my parents everything about what's going on, though they know partly. I respect his opinion as well as his ex's privacy. In my opinion, they're both waiting for the right time to talk about this. I can't blame this ex if she's still living at his place, coz maybe she's also waiting for my bf to make a move.


I'm confused!



I want to go with flow
I want to give him time.
I want to be more patient.
I want to trust him.


Maybe I should be blame to....

[NNNN]

I have boyfriend who used to have a live-in partner for a very long time. They have an 8 year old son. Although we're in a relationship for not quite long, they're still living together at his family's house. Of course I trust him, but trusting is not enough knowing that anything is possible to happen. It's not new to me since we used to be friends before we decided to be in a relationship. We've already talked about this but I always don't get his opinion. I know he's scared coz every parent wants to keep their child, I could understand that. But the thing is, he doesn't have enough courage to talk to his ex personally about our relationship, about me, about him, about everything. His ex knows that he's seeing someone of course. (Maybe she just doesn't want to leave the place). That's where I get my tantrums over him. I begin to stop communicating him without giving him reason WHY, I tend to be moody giving him the sign that I'd mad at him. Maybe men and women do really have different thinking. I tend to be paranoid whenever he's at his home. I can't even talk to my parents everything about what's going on, though they know partly. I respect his opinion as well as his ex's privacy. In my opinion, they're both waiting for the right time to talk about this. I can't blame this ex if she's still living at his place, coz maybe she's also waiting for my bf to make a move.


I'm confused!



I want to go with flow
I want to give him time.
I want to be more patient.
I want to trust him.


Maybe I should be blame to....

IMHO, do not think too much about it since you are not yet married and don't have kids yet -- meaning, no commitment yet.
IMHO, just go with the flow and keep yourself busy. Do longer hours at work. Have a business or a sideline. Have time with your family and your young relatives. Make your time be occupied with work for the moment.

This is my opinion though. You know yourself better. You know what is best. Whatever you decide about that matter, I'm confident it is the best decision you make.

[THE KID]

klaru kaau cge pana sila og jerbox sa iyang live in partner...sure na ts....

[agentjosh]

Ngitag lain, daghan laki nga mas tarong ug mas naa ka future. Lisod ning relationship nga daghan drama.

1. Nag stay pa sya sa ilang balay that means dili pa niya kaya mag independent.
3. Dili muhawa iyang ex sa ilang balay, im sure according sa iyaha na but wala ka kadungog sa side sa girl.
3. Nag kuyog pa sya sa iyang ex nya naa cla anak, that means naa pa daghan chance nga magbalik pa na sila and there is a big probability nga sakto si THE KID.

Don't make you love life complicated, it should make you a better person and make you happy dili kay cge labad imo ulo sa mga situation.

[rsmith284]

Get out of this relationship. ASAP. If it's exactly how you said it is then it's toxic for everyone involved. Maybe not today, but soon.

[santario101]

same bed ra sila matulog TS ?

[Peenut]

same bed ra sila matulog TS ?

rainy days ra ba....

[Ghadz]

tugnaw ra ba ang panahon, modalikyat gyod na og tabikong......

[tal_polano]

so mohandus siya nimo TS, unya mohandos pa jud siya sa iyang kalive in? yahaya gud anang lakiha..

[cardo]

daghan na mo mga martyr TS