• Thanksgiving Editorial: Choosing to be Grateful Amidst Catastrophes


      Hello iSTORYAns,


      It has been so long since I last wrote, be it through my blog or through an editorial here.
      It may be that long that you may be wondering: "Who is she again?"

      Let me re-introduce myself.


      Hi. I am known by my iSTORYAn friends as Thisbe or Ara, because of my handle here.. I am 32 (cue Taylor Swift’s song that I murdered: I don’t know bout you, but I’m feeling 32… ) and I am your Editor-in-Chief.

      Here at iSTORYA.NET, we talk more about stories beyond the talking. Just like you, I have my story. You see, I am a widow. My husband was known by iSTORYAns as CraSHBURN who lurked around the Computer and Hardware sections to moderate. Some disliked him, and a lot became his friends. I, on the other hand, love him til death and beyond. I write about it through my blog.

      While writing may be therapeutic, it is so hard to see what's good left when you restart life at 32 and everyone else is just starting theirs. It is so hard to write when you are in the midst of emotional crisis. Aside from my personal catastrophes, the Visayas has been through so much that being festive in any way (writing, celebrating, etc) is far from our minds.

      However, in whatever state we are in, while it is hard to be celebratory especially that Christmas is just a few days away, it is not impossible to be grateful. Look around you and listen deeply to the stories that you hear, some broadcasted and some are not—of prisoners giving up their meals to help, of countries coming together for help, of competitors coming together for a unified cause, of broken families being united, of Christmas parties being given up just for donation, of little kids breaking their piggy banks, of beggars giving, of the traffic because of trucks full of relief goods to the different parts of Visayas, of life, of the appreciation of life amidst death, etc.


      https://www.facebook.com/tambayayongsugbo

      We may have lost our faith in the government or our leaders, but when you open your heart to what's happening, you cannot lose faith in the spirit of Bayanihan that almost every one has at this moment, be it Filipino or not.


      https://www.facebook.com/tambayayongsugbo


      https://www.facebook.com/tambayayongsugbo

      Yes, there may always be something to rant about, but hey, I choose to see the splurge of humanity that I see in almost every one. It is a matter of perspective, a good friend of mine used to say (thanks, BeoR). From my end, I can choose to wallow and grieve over my loss. But then again, I also have a choice to celebrate the life that he has, the love that we had that was so special it will strengthen me to go through life on my own.

      Every day and every moment is a choice.
      Choose to be grateful.
      Choose to lend a hand.
      Choose to be an inspiration.
      Choose love.

      Happy Thanksgiving, iSTORYAns.
      Thank you for all. Thank you for reading this. Thank you for your support. Thank you for being you.


      What are you grateful for at this moment? Mag iSTORYA Ta..



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      -thisbe.ara-
      Editor-in-Chief
      www.arainso.com
      ara@istorya.net
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      Comments 20 Comments
      1. clarkhkent's Avatar
        clarkhkent -
        nice article der ate ara...
      1. R_sQuArEd's Avatar
        R_sQuArEd -
        that's why i don't believe in destiny or fate because we make our own destiny/fate through the choices that we make in life
      1. beyee's Avatar
        beyee -

        Welcome back, Ara
        *virtual hugs*

        I'm grateful for iStorya for being my solace since I came back in 2009. It had broadened my horizon to appreciate people and their views on certain issues.

        Your stories and others have taught me in some ways which I don't get from books. And with all the adversities we are facing, I have witnessed how peeps in the forum go out of their way just to help out. And that gives everyone a sense of hope that things will be better in time
      1. urotchimaru09's Avatar
        urotchimaru09 -
        nyc one!!
      1. Echelnalf's Avatar
        Echelnalf -
        Nice read. Nice to see you back and yeah, crashBURN, my blockmate USC-TC comp-E.

        - - - Updated - - -

        Nice read. Nice to see you back and yeah, crashBURN, my blockmate USC-TC comp-E.
      1. jofer's Avatar
        jofer -
        welcome back mam Merry christmas to you too
      1. Rayvin's Avatar
        Rayvin -
        Merry christmas Miss Ara.. this article is not too long, but it comprises a lot of emotion from the writer.. you really are the Editor in chief...
      1. thisbe.ara's Avatar
        thisbe.ara -
        Thank you every one! May we all have a grateful Christmas!
      1. Rickyc's Avatar
        Rickyc -
        Amoa mana place oh!
      1. Rickyc's Avatar
        Rickyc -
        Thank you very much for the help and support you have shared to the people in the island where I was born and raise. Thank you so much. You are such a helping hand. May God bless you and your family.

        I really appreciate your good deeds. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! in behalf of the islahanon there.
      1. hunter_droz's Avatar
        hunter_droz -
        nice maam ara welcome back
      1. Cebu Properties's Avatar
        Cebu Properties -
        kapit bisig mga kapatid..........
      1. urotchimaru09's Avatar
        urotchimaru09 -
        keep it up guys!!
      1. chonkee's Avatar
        chonkee -
        Kudos Ara !! Continue to write so that you can continue to give inspiration and encouragement to all istoryans. I salute you !
      1. shey0811's Avatar
        shey0811 -
        Inspirational indeed...
      1. miga_maldita's Avatar
        miga_maldita -
        Ohhh! This inspires me to start writing my super delayed 2013 flash back with "Gratefulness" as a theme. Hmmm!
      1. thisbe.ara's Avatar
        thisbe.ara -
        Quote Originally Posted by miga_maldita View Post
        Ohhh! This inspires me to start writing my super delayed 2013 flash back with "Gratefulness" as a theme. Hmmm!
        go go!


        thanks guys! <3 How's your 2014 so far?
      1. sarang's Avatar
        sarang -
        Thanks for this Ma'am Ara.. I needed this at this very moment..
      1. Fast Burn's Avatar
        Fast Burn -
        more power mam!..
      1. manters2000's Avatar
        manters2000 -
        nice read !!!

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