• Things My Wife Didn't Know


      She made me quote cliches like this: Love is sweeter the 2nd time around.
      She made me so happy when we finally had an official relationship status. I was now a firm believer that love is sweeter the 2nd time around. We were stronger, more mature and appreciated what we had in comparison to our failed relationships. I wanted her to be happy so I gave her simple surprises just because she delights in them. We have dozens of stuffed babies, I baby talk and I didn’t care if others would find it corny. I am happy. She made me pursue my love in photography and made a business out of it. I would like to say that I somehow made a name in the industry and all thanks to her push to make me do that thing I love doing.
      We had a short breakup because of a misunderstanding in Dumaguete. I went out with friends while she was at home. It was there that I realized that I couldn’t live a day without her so I called a good friend, Jayson, to produce an engagement ring. It was the start of a 3-month preparation for the perfect proposal for her—based on her all-time favorite proposal from Monica to Chandler in FRIENDS. She didn’t know during those 3 months and thanks to iSTORYAns belle, pisskhanXXX (who flew all the way from Clark, Pampanga), my siblings, parents, and very close friends. I talked to my family about this plan during one dinner. I said, “Pa, I’m gonna marry Arlyn…I will propose to her.” And my father with a smile said, “I know…” it’s one good feeling to have your parents approve of a lifetime decision. I know I made the right one. The rest of the proposal story is here written by her (click here for story)


      My wife is strong—she does not scream when she sees a flying cockroach.

      I married her twice—once in a simple church wedding and another on a grand wedding with all friends and family. I married her twice because she’s worth it. Heck, I would marry her every day if I can. I could not, for the life of me, imagine my life had it been someone else. Stories, click here—Church wedding and Grand Wedding.


      When you see our stories, it might seem really inspiring but being in it is not a walk in the park. We had so much on our hands to deal with. Recently, our challenges were not your normal, average ones— we transferred houses to be on our own, we lost our 18-day old baby Levi who looked a lot like me (click for story here) and less than 2 months after that, I was recently diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia and had to go on chemotherapy. Yes, it is that tragic—for others. Ours is not an easy feat. I am recently battling Cancer and yet, I feel strong. I have never been this calm and composed. My wife dedicated blog articles to document this battle of ours-> Lito Inso aka CraSHBURN
      for wifey
      Arlyn "Ara" Inso aka thisbe.ara


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      Comments 178 Comments
      1. Mald|3Ta's Avatar
        Mald|3Ta -
        speechless ....
      1. thisbe.ara's Avatar
        thisbe.ara -
        when you made this last night, we both cried. reading it now, i don't know what to say. there are no words pree. i just love you so much. and i am happy to be loved by someone like you.. love you. love you. love you. thank you so much for this and for everything.
      1. doki's Avatar
        doki -
        Hehehe istoryan couples...while i was checking on my sign up year sa istorya.. 2004 man sad diay ko. Dugaya na diay sa. Dako sad ko pasalamat sa istorya kay naka diskarte ko pag.ayo ni alexie. Da! Naminaw man, piti nuon. (:
        Thanks again for this wonderful forum.
      1. juleskiboi's Avatar
        juleskiboi -
        this is such a heart-warming love story...i pray for sir crashburn to be strong and never give up..happy hearts day to you and maam thisbe.ara...

        p.s.
        me and my wife met online 4 years ago -- in istorya.net
      1. beyee's Avatar
        beyee -
        Call me cornballs but I found myself in tears reading through your love story guys.
        Your amazing story somehow made me realize that love still exists despite all the stumbling blocks that you're both facing ~~ truly an inspiring journey for all of us here in the forum.

        Thanks so much for sharing a part of your life together guys... It had me smiling from ear to ear, laughing and even feeling giddy in between hehehe...

        God bless and happy vee day!
      1. rhame's Avatar
        rhame -
        and I just cried...

        Love ain't perfect I know but reading stuff like this makes me think it's worth it.
      1. belle's Avatar
        belle -
        I'm so glad to have read Lito's side of their love story... I have always been a fan of your loveteam. hehe...
        Stay in love and take care of each other. You may be facing trials now but I know that you are both strong and God will never forsake you. Keep the faith. Love you both...
      1. xinevirtucio's Avatar
        xinevirtucio -
        and I thought I wouldn't cry on valentines day...

        it's the imperfection that makes love stories like this worth reading...and worth the tears...

        ^_^
      1. potterboy's Avatar
        potterboy -
        Doki: Kumusta naman diay mong Alexie?

        "Since I am telling my version, I say, she really looked for me and missed me. She might have seen my profile pic and fell in love with me once again and urged herself to write a note with the pretense that she was looking for my cousin. hahaha.. There! Ayaw palag! I had no intention to fall in love again, especially with her—the one who broke my heart."

        Epic! Hehehe...

        Ate Ar: Mura ug familiar mani ang mga panghitaboa sa inyong courtship the second time around. hahaha piskot kakiligersness.
      1. jkemny's Avatar
        jkemny -
        very touching...i cried while reading this...i super can relate to this line "Life is tough, guys, I tell you. It is not a bed of roses but if there is someone with you through it all, you push yourself to become stronger and fight because someone believes in you, someone loves you. There is no enemy too big if there is love surrounding you. I am so blessed to have such in my life."
      1. rexter's Avatar
        rexter -
        idol ta mong duha... Godspeed!
      1. bashblues's Avatar
        bashblues -
        Wow! Just wow!

        Get well soon!
      1. forum_angel's Avatar
        forum_angel -
        waahhhh...this is soooo touching. Love conquers All.
      1. mimsnav's Avatar
        mimsnav -
        The most striking couple on EBs during those good old days. It's hard not to notice these two cause they're very "tabian," hyperactive and super SWEET! . Always been a fan of your love team! ^_^
      1. clarkhkent's Avatar
        clarkhkent -
        very touching story...nice wan!

        anyway get well soon by lito...ill include u in my prayers...
      1. malditah's Avatar
        malditah -
        and i was in tears reading this one.

        bisan wala ko kaila ninyo in person, but your story is my inspiration.

        the lines that strike me most was this:
        "Life is tough, guys, I tell you. It is not a bed of roses but if there is someone with you through it all, you push yourself to become stronger and fight because someone believes in you, someone loves you. There is no enemy too big if there is love surrounding you. I am so blessed to have such in my life."

        yeah right, life is tough pero if you have that someone who will always be there with you through thick and thin, you will feel so blessed.

        Thank you for sharing your story. GOdbless you both.
      1. sabrinxy's Avatar
        sabrinxy -
        Actually, by reading all of this, I'm speechless.. I'm glad you both found each other in the nick of time.. You guys have been through alot and still managed to find each other years later. That's way too cool! But after reading about Levi, it brought me into tears because that shouldn't happen to such a wonderful couple like you both.. I have four kids and i would be really devastated if I lost any one of them.. Then going back to the main page, while reading about your husband, it made me cry more.. But you, Arlyn, are very strong.. I can see that despite everything that has happened and everything that is happening right now, you are staying as positive as you can ever be. And I admire that. It's not all the time we see people like you. Thank you for sharing this with us and for touching me as well. Prayers for Lito from me and my husband. Get well soon!
      1. blck_angel's Avatar
        blck_angel -
        gave me a whole new idea of what truly love is.. u are sooo.... for each other! and very lucky to have found and kept each other..
      1. ryeaka's Avatar
        ryeaka -
        wow.. just when i thought true love doesn't exist..
        your story made me cry...
        it simply touched my heart...
        what you have is rare...
        and i admire both of you...
        i pray you'll be well soon sir crashburn...
        and i pray that He'll give thisbe.ara all the strength she needs for you and your child...
        lastly, i pray that your love story will be an inspiration to all...

        thank you for sharing your story...
      1. gracie7's Avatar
        gracie7 -
        Wow!! Before thisbe.ara's blog would make me teary eyed about the ups & downs that their life has been facing but reading this blog (CraSHBURN's blog) would also make me feel sooo kilig with the type of love story you guys had!

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