Will you still try to save your relationship when your partner already judged you?

[lime_rane]

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Their are things happen without you expecting it to happen. People who tries to create stories behind your back just barely on what they see or hear towards others but will try to save yourself or explain your side when your BF/GF already made a conclusion about you? Despite of the sacrifices that you have done... ok given that he/she didn'nt ask you to do that but isn's it given that you do things to protect your relationships without being told to do so? Will you ever believe him/her that somebody just told him that you are cheating? won't you give the benefit of the doubt to let him/her explain her side as well? or is it because he/she just believe that person for the reason he/she is all over you?

Will somebody have ever been in this situation?

[<SMILE>]

Trials in its most positive side are not there to create gaps,
but to strengthen affinity. A bond is as always measured by detaching
the more it resist the more stronger it is.
Let this situation become a measure of what you really are to him.

[shorlene]

If he/she could judge you just that quickly, then I guess it says much about the trust that he/she has for you-- little to nonexistent. Trust is very important in a relationship. You guys should communicate and if he/she refuses to ignore his/her judgement and hear you out, then let it go.

[lime_rane]

i guess its true but will that still work if that person already made a decision not to see you?

[men@w0rk]

If He/She judges you...
It ONLY MEANS..
His/Her Love for you is LESS..
TRUE LOVE DOESN'T JUDGE..

[kentoy0224]

there will always be circumstances like this whenever you are in a relationship. labi nag daghan nasuya ninyo or for any reason doesnt want you together. best thing to do in these situations is to communicate rajud. know your partner and trust your instincts. if there is a reason to doubt then ask one another. dont be harsh dont be judgemental and be willing to listen. there are misconceptions that can be corrected if you both tackle it head on. trust is the basic foundation in any relationship TS. kung imo jud gisaligan imo partner there is no heresay or tsismis that could deter you from how you see him and how you know him.

[monrose29]

you guys.. knows more each other.. than those people trying to destroy your relationship...of course how could you say yes to him/her when you don't know him/her that well? if there's a will there's a way..

[lime_rane]

you guys.. knows more each other.. than those people trying to destroy your relationship...of course how could you say yes to him/her when you don't know him/her that well? if there's a will there's a way..

i guess that tells it all... but i think once your partner have doubts on you does it mean ni fade na ang feelings? or is it just merely one way of telling you that they've found someone new....hhmmm

[monrose29]

NO.. doubts in relationship is always there.. but if both of you are very in love with each other and willing to stand the challenges ma overcome ra na ang mga pag duda... but if one of you is not willing to..then diha ra jud na kutob...coz ang relationship deli mo work kong usa ra ka person ang willing....

[kageron]

don't give up on us baby were still worth one more try.