ARE YOU A DUMPER OR A DUMPEE???

[Innosaint]

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FOR ME? i think both suffer. The dumper has to break the news of not wanting to be together, and feeling bad that you aren't together anymore, and most importantly, breaking the other person's heart. The dumpee has a hundred zillion questions in their head of why the relationship went the way it did. So I think the suffering (for most people)is even.

[ianina]

yeah u got a point..hehe pero if ang dumper's just playing around..then the dumpee is really serious about the relationship..luoy jud ang dumpee...

depende ra sd.hehe

[Zahara]

I've been on both sides of the fence.

Anyways, i think it much harder on the dumpee. Even if wala siyay feelings, her/his self-esteem would take a beating.

[Dark_Hero]

BOTH

[rudjard]

for my point of view ---- basta if you dump someone make sure you have reasons... valid reason....

---- when someone dumps you,you can ask a question" WHY DID S/HE dump me?"
is it worthy s/he did it or is it unreasonably wrong?

but peeps don't you worry if someone gets rid of you.. someone will catch you too :mrgreen:

[MALDITA_YLLYZA]

The dumper had plenty of time to prepared and when dumper dumps dumpee it means he/she was ready with defence shield up, not to mention the dumpee has to suffer from damaged ego on top of a broken heart.

I would say defintely the dumpee. the dumper is has thought this through, they know it's coming, and they are somewhat over you or not that into you to do it in the first place.
the dumpee on the other hand can often be blind sighted by this information because they are still in love and not ready for things to end yet. they are still questioning if things could have been different, they are the ones that will have to seek closure from the other person's actions. unless they hurt the other person (i.e cheating, causing the other person to dump them)

[volatile8]

Humpy Dumpee

[chocofudge]

both but to different person

[slakker]

dumper, every morning i take a dump...

[THE KID]

Dumper......