i gor a mother that who dearly love her children, sometimes she is getting over protective that makes you feel of being choked, but the truth is, its not over protection, its her love to me, and my grown up feelings that makes me feel choked up... now that i have my own family and children, i now know why she did those choking feeling to me, its because she loves me, cares for me... and that what i also feel to my children...