How to get my EX back??

[jologz]

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My GF told me last saturday na mag split sa mi..major reason nya kay busy kaau xa sa iyahng new work then di na nya kaya ang LDR..I asked her if Love pa ko nya then she said na yes but di na pareho before..I asked also if naay gadiskarte nya sa iyang work and wala xa nagdeny, then follow up question ko if ganahn ba xa ato na guy ang iya tubag kay "ambot lang"..nangutana pud ko if break na jud mi or cool off lang then ang iyang answer kay "ambot lang, give me some space and time to think"..Wala jud ko nasatisfy sa iyahang reasons kay wala man ko nakita na major event na nhappen para makadecide sya ug ingon ana..wala man mi away-away..supportive man kaau ko na BF and di sad ko laagan na..wala pud ko nagcheat..What do you think guys? Unsa kaha iyang true reason? Ilisan na kaha ko nya or nabored lang sya sa among LDR? I offered her solutions like working in manila para mafix among relationship but iya man iturn down ang tanan solutions that i've offered. It's like she's pushing me away even though I'm trying to reach out..Unsa kaha best nako buhaton to win her back??

[mybabyfudgee]

let go if she comes back that means she really loves you..
give her time to think lang bro and maybe she will misses you and realized na kaw jud iya gusto..

[jologz]

mao sad akong plano...gnahan ko ipakita nya na I'm still the guy she fell inlove with..actually I tried asking sa mga friends and naglibog jud ko kay 50/50 jud ilang advice..tanan guys niingon nako na ilisan na daw ko but all girls na akong giask kay niingon right off the bat na magbalik pa daw mi..hehe mas musalig ko sa advice sa girls kay mas kasabot man sila sa feeling sa kao uyab..maayo ba if d sa ko makicommunicate nya or communicate ghapon but lesser lang and continue to show lang that I still care?

[mybabyfudgee]

well its ok man sad bro na mo communicate ka but not to the point na every move imo itxt hehe what i mean is mangumusta lng ka niya if how was her day..just to make her feel na naa ra japon ka..but give her time and space if thats what she wanted and in that time sad mkahuna huna ka unsa jud imo angay na move,,,

[annerhexian]

My GF told me last saturday na mag split sa mi..major reason nya kay busy kaau xa sa iyahng new work then di na nya kaya ang LDR..I asked her if Love pa ko nya then she said na yes but di na pareho before..I asked also if naay gadiskarte nya sa iyang work and wala xa nagdeny, then follow up question ko if ganahn ba xa ato na guy ang iya tubag kay "ambot lang"..nangutana pud ko if break na jud mi or cool off lang then ang iyang answer kay "ambot lang, give me some space and time to think"..Wala jud ko nasatisfy sa iyahang reasons kay wala man ko nakita na major event na nhappen para makadecide sya ug ingon ana..wala man mi away-away..supportive man kaau ko na BF and di sad ko laagan na..wala pud ko nagcheat..What do you think guys? Unsa kaha iyang true reason? Ilisan na kaha ko nya or nabored lang sya sa among LDR? I offered her solutions like working in manila para mafix among relationship but iya man iturn down ang tanan solutions that i've offered. It's like she's pushing me away even though I'm trying to reach out..Unsa kaha best nako buhaton to win her back??

Hi Jologz.
hmmm the dilemma of ur GF is LDR and so on and so forth.
pero as what I see in u, ug kita man jud ko nmo kausa - SINCERE jud ka pagataw when it comes to ur gf relationship.. but then imo gf decided na siya na mag split na jud mow.
Trying to win her back - is that ur really wanted to do?
U love her. No doubt about that.. But is she worth the fight?

but then, is ur gf loves u more than that word.. Actions speaks louder than words as what the saying goes, but if a girl, dont want it.. dili jud cea.. U offered so many solutions to her, na if ako ang girl ana sa imo dapita, I would gladly grabbed it para dili ma LDR tang duha.. but then, as what u state here, she turns it down? for wat reason?

Unsa in yu best BUHATON - I think, a communication na magkita jud mo sa usat usa.. and there u cud see and think kung unsa jud imo angaya buhaton..
winning her back thru yms, email and calls is a very tiresome coz its never a guarantee baya jud.. But for me lang.. if kaya nmo, see her in person.. Love man jud kaayu nimo.. pro dOnt expect kung unsa imo ma observahan ddto.. kung unsa imo makit an ddto..

Give time on everything but dont hold on to things that can give u a failed expectations..

[jologz]

thanks for the advice..mau jud akong buhaton..maau unta mabusy xa sa iyang work para di xa makakita ug lain dd2..hehe

[jologz]

@anne: moad2 jud ko manila..hehe..anyway wala man ko naghunahuna na makkita sya ug lain dd2 kay ingon man xa na love pa man ko nya..tagaan lang nako sya time then panguyaban xa nako balik..murag napressure and stress ra man cguro sya kay daghan pud kaau problems sa iyahng family..ako sa tarungon akong life ron, asikaso ko sa akong papers for US then magpagwapo ko para makakita sya kung unsa nawala sa iyaha hehe..

[beyee]

wer in the same boat jolz but d lang LDR amo set-up... kalit sya ni-give up coz of his new work and i asked the same thing if naa ba lain sa work but ala daw, kami lang japon kuno but no commitment.. faet jud k ala mi away or smooth au ang relationship namo ato bsag we barely see each other, understand pod maau ko nya since first work nya... anwayz, sa cge nako huwat nya for months, nahibaw-an lang nako na dugay2x napod sila sa iya new gf (bestfriend nya sa college and work na) -- mao daw reason na shaky na daw iya pagtagad nako... mora jud ko nahagsa ato...

so that's why upon reading ur predicament wid ur gf, my initial reaction is, u better let her be lang sa then if u feel na it's time for u to really talk it out, go to manila and see her and put up a good fight for ur love if there's still something left to save from all ur probs together... u owe it pod na she wud be clear and honest wid what she really wants kesa she'll give u a vague answer... d bya lalim maghulat sa wala...

God bless jolz...

[annerhexian]

@anne: moad2 jud ko manila..hehe..anyway wala man ko naghunahuna na makkita sya ug lain dd2 kay ingon man xa na love pa man ko nya..tagaan lang nako sya time then panguyaban xa nako balik..murag napressure and stress ra man cguro sya kay daghan pud kaau problems sa iyahng family..ako sa tarungon akong life ron, asikaso ko sa akong papers for US then magpagwapo ko para makakita sya kung unsa nawala sa iyaha hehe..

aw nice na imong plano sa imong life.. nyways.. if kamo jud, magkakamo jud... btaw, if problemado jud ang taw aside sa lovelife - maka make jud na ceag dcision na wala diri, wala ddto.. sabta lang cguru cea jologz..

bsta kung asa ka happy, moral support ra ko diri brad..

nyahaahhaahaha! au au sa lopad.. sunod lang nea kow.. wahaahhaaha! joke!

[yokyok]

respect lng bro, give her time & space but ayaw kalimot og text nya to say good morning.... tc always... good evening.. mga qoutes ba... pero ayaw lng sa siya pangutan.a bsag unsa sa text... pero sa ako lng experience kay nka try nman ko ge ingon ana ko, naa na siyay naganahan lain bro, or na inlove na siya sa lain. mao gyd na nka pait sa LDR.