cool off.. na unsa na man ni?

[christinetinetineo6]

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hi guys.. uh. i'm posting this thread for my friend.. not me. haha

he's a guy friend.. and it bothers me na mag sige siya ug GM (group message or send to many) about nilang duha sa iyang GF nga worried na kaayo siya kay nag cool off sila. let's say the guy's name is lambert and the girl's name is Nikka. dili lang ko mu post sa ilang full name ha?

the problem is.. si nikka natuok na daw sa relationship.. she doesn't want nga kada lihok niya, kailangan pa sulti an si lambert (higpit ra daw kaayo). dili pud siya ganahan nga si lambert mag sige ug pangutana sa ubang tawo kung unsa ang naka nindot sa ilang relationship.. like for example: lambert asks me kung unsai nakapa nindot sa akong relationship with my BF, sweet ba ko niya or etc., dili man ganahan si nikka.. ang sabot niya kay gipagawas ni lambert nga bati na hinuon ilang relationship tungod niya kay mangutana pa ug advice si lambert kung unsaon para nindut ang relationship.. so mao to, nakig cool off na nuon si nikka.

hapit na ilang monthsary.. this 16. ganahan ta ko nga ma okay na sila ba.. what can i say para ma okay na si nikka ni lambert and dili na niya lainon ug sabot? or i don't know.. i want to help them kay lambert has been very emo lately.

thanks istorya.

[Chel Fernandez]

Too much gripping will cause you bruises at the same time if you are too loose it will slip off... dapat sa relaltionship tama tama lang... playing along both freedom and commitment... si lambert siguro nuh in love kaayo ni nikka or simply possessive si lambert... Tell lambert nga dili na maayo and i think he already suffered for the consequences which is nagcool off gyud sila...

I think lambert should learn the value of sensitivity, I understand that he wants the relationship to work but then he doesn't need to broadcast it to everyone kai basin si nikka she wants things privately (in which sa kani na situation karon nalain gyud si nikka)...

I would suggest that lambert give nikka a breathing space as of the moment at the same time he change his strategies and put away rationalization nga sakto siya... Ika nga "it takes two to tango"... Relationship last longer when we learn to compromise and accept the fact nga dili mo pareho og point of view sa imong partner all the time... Kai you were different naman before you guys were together... so lambert should accept nga dili na parrot si nikka nga iyang e.cage og e.train... (kinsa man taohana ganahan ana oizt?! hehehe)

Tell lambert he should ask sorry and change! as in change gyud! dili ng char2x nga sulti nga he would change then mao diay gihapon kai if dili siya mausab buwag na gyud na og dili lang cool off... hehehe....

[JX]

tell lamberto not to put nikka on a pedestal, clearly she doesn't want to be there.. By the way TS, I think you should let both of them solve their situation.. If one side asks for an advice, you can give one, but I would not suggest nga ikaw ang mo.fix ani for them.. Let their relationship grow, in their own efforts..

[blakrabit]

lambert = nagger
Nikka = suffocated

[christinetinetineo6]

sigh.. i asked nikka kung hadlok ba siya nga mawala si lambert niya.. she said kapoy na daw.. wala na jud kuno siya'y gana. luoya sad sa laki oi.

sobra sad ni ka possessive si lambert.. and i think para sad niya, kuwang ra ang pag sweet2 ni nikka. i think he's not contented. thanks sa inyong mga replies! i hope ma okay na jud sila.

[cjmagowan]

lambert = OC
nikka = unprepared so not ready pa.

solution = break and let them realize their mistakes.

[dindinisms]

maypa undangon na nila. lambert needs to grow up.

[Chel Fernandez]

sigh.. i asked nikka kung hadlok ba siya nga mawala si lambert niya.. she said kapoy na daw.. wala na jud kuno siya'y gana. luoya sad sa laki oi.

sobra sad ni ka possessive si lambert.. and i think para sad niya, kuwang ra ang pag sweet2 ni nikka. i think he's not contented. thanks sa inyong mga replies! i hope ma okay na jud sila.

Let them learn... wala nakay mabuhat ana!... kai basin of magpatunga kah ikaw ang maigo sah bala... nah lisod nana... hehehe...

[brackitz]

ayaw'g apil2 ts woi, basin mamiligro ka..hehe

ang imu lang ts is suggest lang sa imu fren, pero
kutob raka diha...

[nakaigo]

batig nawng imong friend (guy) TS?..
bsta mga ing-ana man gud kay insecure na siya..
walay confidence..