How do you turn down a persistent suitor?

[freeheist]

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wonder lang.. tra la la la..

[jellyFish]

say NO.. and mean it....

but its so darn frustrating when he turns stalker type

[cottoncandy]

HMMMM....based on my experience... ahemm :P

what i did was talk to the guy... and told him that he's nice and everythin(all the positive things i see) and the reasons why it couldnt be "US"... and i appreciate his persistence but I just can't force myself to love sumone my heart doesn't choose to love.

i told him...maybe im not really for him.. and who knows there's sumbody out there far more better than i am...sumone much more deserving of his love...

its better to turn him down than give him false hopes.... at least he'll never be waiting in vain.. :P

[jellyFish]

^^ yeah did that already a million times.. but he still wont get it ...

its sometimes freaky when he'd call u at the house 3 or 4 am in the morning... (worst if ang parents nako makatubag)... when ul have 20 misscalls from him when ur having a 30 minutes meetng in the ofc...

so currently.. im not answering the texts.. even anonymous ones coz i hv a feeling its him
.. dont answer fone calls (thank God for caller IDs!).... likay likay likay

tried talking to him.. but its getting nowhere.. so likay n lng jud

[cottoncandy]

corek! if that's the case na d na jud mabang -bang ang iya obsession... all you have to do is simply ignore his presence, his texts and cut whutever communication you have with him.. yopaks lang na cia kadugayan oi!

[sassy_suzzy]

tell him the truth why both of you should stay as firends...

[giver_bert]

as correlated to death.. the quicker, the lesser pain it will be.. no vain hopes whatsoever..

white lies.. err.. mainly for boosting up the guy's ego, but be careful of pulling out one.. in rare cases it's from those thingies that drives guys to be more persistent..

[lindsay]

hmm..this reminds me of someone. be honest to him... look at him straight to his eyes and tell him nicely and firmly that you appreciate his efforts but u'r just not into him. usahay man god maglibog sad ang mga lalaki kay ang mga babaye sad di mo prangka. basin too sa laki na padilidili lang.

[FK]

agree with u bert... kong balibad mo ayaw na lang jud pangatik.

[jellyFish]

naa lng jud cguro uban guys who cnt take no for an answer... bisag la na lain ka nga matubag niya except "NO"... even how much imo paninguha nga mapasabot...

ig storya ninyo murag ok na cya.. nkasabot na.. nka accept na.. den ig kadlawon.. tua napud... dli sad baya lalim mo say "no" sa usa ka tao again and again...

so likay n lng.. if uv exhausted all possible way na mapasabot cya...

just be honest lng...