Just last week I used my leave today for para maka visit ko sa ako family kay gimingaw pud ko nila. Everything was going well until niabot sa point ako papa nag compare2 dayon sa kinabuhi sa iyang mga igsoon, na naay sakyanan, naay business and kami kay wala. Usual mani niya na batasan bisag bata pako sige gihapon siyag compare2 tapos pag human niyag compare iya dayon ebalik sa akoa na "dapat mag skwela kag tarong" and karon naa koy trabaho tood pero dili pa kaayo stable.
Iya dayon ingnan na "kung sayo lang unta ka nahuman ug skwela, successful na unta ka karon ug dako2 naka ug natigom". Well ang kadugay sa akong pag skwela is not something to be proud of. I mean 8 years ko nahuman ug school though I finished 3 ladderized courses related sa Engineering pud... well engineer gihapon pero it could have been finished in 5 years if 1 course lang... he keeps on repeating that and samokan na kaayo ko.
And then he talks about CARS. Na iyang mga igsoon naa nay sakyanan kami kay wala tapos if magka giyera man gani ang Mindanao, wala miy kadaganan. He keeps on going this about for so long na I've had enough with it and ning tubag ko "unsa ka importante nang sakyanan diay? traffic naman kaayo dinhe sa Pinas unya mag apil2 pata? Gasto pajud kaayo. Niingon dayon ug "Ikaw inana man ka musugot raman kag inana imong kinabuhi wala man kay PANGARAP. and then gibalik tong unsa ko sa una, unsa ko ka slow learner, unsa ko kadugay nahuman ug skwela and tanan gasto para ma engineer lang ko. Niabot sa point na nag siningkahay nami and pagka sunod adlaw nibyahe nalang ko pabalik sa amo boarding house.
I don't know ngano most parents inani ug thinking... pero their children shouldn't behave the way that they want, they should treat them as different... also, we are human beings, not retirement funds. And isa sa ka maka bukal jud ug dugo kanang mag compare2 dayon sa kinabuhi sa lain tao. Kung maski kita ang naa sa sakto kita gihapoy himuon ug dautan.
I also regret na I told him about anang sidelines nako na job related to web development, digital marketing and nag learn ug investment(which I have made some money out of). He told me wala daw kunoy mga ayo nang mga ako gipang tun.an and maypa concentrate rako sa ako job... and maka pobre radaw kuno ang mag business2 ug invest2 (naa siyay retirement fund na dako ug mahadlok mugasto kay gamay nalang daw mig kwarta).
Sorry for ranting guys... taas2 akong na type but I also want to vent from people like my dad... it's been years na I've been treated like this and nagka trabaho ug nagpalayo nalang ko mao ra gihapon. and it's a pain and one of the causes of my depression.