Originally Posted by
sigs4diamonds
i am a mother of 4 kids and have been a battered wife for a longest time in our marriage, usa pa anak namo, nadapatan nako, and even 4 na amo anak, nahitabo ghapon,, BECAUSE, if mabuhat kausa, mabuhat na every now and then, especially if a person is into drugs..it doesnt mean na buntis ka, mahigot na ang laki nimo, laki is lalaki and it will take time for them to mature, they may be sorry for what they have done, but still, laki gihapon sila... 3 yrs pa gani na sila, while i am into a 14 yrs relationship, BUT to tell you honestly, bsag unsaun nimo pugong imo friend, you will just get hurt labi na if blinded sya bec of her love to the guy, better to wait for the time na masakitan sya maayo para sya na mismo muingon na dili na sya, whatever mahitabo nya and sa baby it will be her obligation on letting the baby grow na ing ana ka samok, im quite sure na if mugawas na ang baby, she will be much stronger gyud to decide to leave whatever she needs to leave... sometimes guys, we have to get hurt i mean hurt na hurt before we can realize na sakto na, bsag kinsa pa mutambag nimo pero if blinded ka, wa gyud mabuhat... let me just remind you, the person that would hurt you most is the person that you love most....pm me lang if you want more advices..hehehehehe..happy holidays everyone!