as we move forward, it becomes obsolete
i wanna get married![]()
you're not alone.
marriage is a BIG DEAL. i'm still scared to even think about it. haha.![]()
Marriage is very important nga dili dapat mag-divorce or mag-annul. Make sure you give promises and commitment with a right partner.
Thread Title seems to be confusing imho.. I just find it confusing lng coz when u say MARRIAGE, OPTIONAL jd na xa.. Depende ra jd na sa tao, coz naa mai mga tao na wala jd clai ma ganahan or ma kit.an na partner.. Mao nana cla ang mga "ulitaw og dagang guwang"..
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@TS: Maybe the reason why you find marriage scary, maybe because ur too young pa, or naa pa ka sa stage sa imung life na gusto pa ka mag lingaw2x and stuff and ganahan ka na walai maka buot/sagabal sa imung gusto buhaton sa karon.. Careful lng coz u might end up as "daga or ulitawng guwang".. Pero its not bad.. Again its an option..
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mas nice unta ni na thread if ang title is "Is Marriage Important kng ma buntis or naka pa buntis?"
marriage is important to me... i think it's sacred...
and i think getting married would be one of the most difficult decisions i have to make
guess i just have to find the right someone to risk it all
dili man confusing ang Thread Title brad. In fact, klaro gani kaayo unsay pasabot ni TS. She is asking this very question perhaps to learn from the opinion of others, as she may be having a paradigm shift about her own marriage.
We just need the TS to elaborate more on the SCARY aspect that she alludes to.... it is our turn to learn from her too.
Somehow though, you seem to have a point about the "walai makabuot/sagabal" aspect.. like I said, I hope the TS can share some details perhaps....@TS?
TS, don't let the past scare you. learn from it and be humble enough to accept your own faults because whether you like it or not, i know you too had your faults in your previous relationships. then and there, you will know if marriage is for you or not. if either of the two, be happy that you're still breathing. you still have loved ones to turn to.
very! and yes...want to have a family
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Marriage is a matter of love, acceptance and gamble. I myself is very scared of one thing when it comes to it: infidelity. But still, I got married to my 5 years of beau. And so far, we don't seem to have a major problem as man and wife since there's mutual understanding. Honestly, I've been very cautious of 3rd parties since I encountered such situation with my ex bf before. But you know, failed relationships doesn't mean end of belief for happy endings but a stepping stone to find so-called "the one". Some marriage may lead to divorces but it will never be the end of the road for new love until you meet the one meant for you. I'm not encouraging to collect and select ha.. My point is that, give your best shot to someone you think you could settle with and have a stable life. Nothing in life can guarantee eternal happiness. But "trying" could somehow make a difference.Aja!
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