Wala naba koy love sa akong wife?

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Basin masuko sab kag supakon ka sa una? Kadumdom man nuon ko sakoa iyaan na mag sige nalang og uyon sa iyaha bana ky lain man masuko unya perte kasensitive. Mao tanan isulti sa iyaha bana, go with the flow na lang.paeta sab.

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I think set aside a bit of your plans...get loose..i mean, go on a family vacation, bring back the enjoyment and excitement..basin you're too serious...too matured...and this becomes boring already...

Basin gusto sa imong wife kung unsa sauna...

Go on a vacation. Bring back good memories. Settle differences.

[noy]

Honestly wa gyud ko kahibaw unsa na akong feeling towards my wife. Wala naba ko akoang love sa akong wife?

To cut my story short:
Nagtrabho mi duha. Daghan plano para sa among pamilya. Naa mi anak 2.

Before, Sa kadaghan sa amoa nga plano, mostly ako ra gyud ang nag plano.. though happy man gihapon cya sa naabot namo.. naa nami house and lot..the rest are plans and implementations.

Unfortunately, sa ngadto2, mura na nuon ko ug naglibog.
Sa cge niya ug uyon2 sa halos tanan nako nindot nga mga plano, naglibog na nuon ko ky feel na nko respeto ra iya gibuhat or medyo naa cxa kahadlok nako mao mostly uyon ra cxa.

Wala gyud mi sukad nagkaaway.. Wa gyud ko kapasakit nya..
Before, if naa mi conflict, ako ang magcge ug voice out.. medyo prangkador gyud nuon ko pero walay bad words ha.. dili ko tigpamalikas. then igo ra cxa maminaw..
Unya maulian ra pud..

Kron, murag gikapoy nako.. instead nga mo-istorya ko sa akong gibati, DILI nalng...ky igo ra gihapon cxa maminaw,.. moingon ra "unsa mn dw kuno iya buhaton" dayon mohilak na..

Dili ko gusto mausab cxa tungod kay mao na akong gusto.. ang ako lng unta nga maka realize cxa unsa ang mas maayo para niya (gikan gyud sa iyahang huna2) nga mabuhat PARA SA AKOA.

Kahibaw gyud ko nga Selfish ra kaayo ko. Pero I think deserving ko ug LOVE and Care. Binata ra cguro ako gipaabot (wa gyud ni nko i-istorya nya pra ma feel nko nga gikan gyud niya.. as-in heartily gyud ba..)

Before, makig-storya ko niya bisan unsa lng gud bsta mkaistorya lng..(maihap ramn gyud sa tudlo nga cxa ang ni duol nko nya nkig-storya..)

Here are few things nga wala ko kaauyon/nalipay sa amoang pag-uban:





---- Towards other family issues: Of course KAYA ra kaau nako atobangon ----

Why I'm longing for those things I've mentioned above? It's because ako na tanan gibuhat niya.. (Nag-expect lang gyud cguro ko ug return, PERO unsa paman diay lain ako i-expect nga mag-asawa mn mi?)


Kahibaw ko lisod mahimong inahan, pero medyo lisod pud mahimong amahan kung ang imo asawa igo nalng motan-aw nimo.. (Feel nya ok ra tanan. Pero para nko DILI.. samot na nga dili nko ganahan ron mo-istorya..)



Right now, I'm suffering very deep and serious depression (medyo mosakit na akong dughan(literally) ... Dili nako katulog ug sakto.. permi nlng ko kapuyon,. dili na pud ko gnahan motingog..usahay mglagot nako makakita niya.)..


Gamy nlng bakante sa ako time, makahuna2 dayon ko : "Ngano ingana man akong asawa..?" gamy ra gyud unta ni nga pangutana pero bisan gamy wala gyud pud ko ikatubag.

Mao ngayo ko sa inyo opinion if love pba ni ako na feel...ky if dili na, dili nlng gyud mi magpadayon..

kumusta TS? taas-taas jud ni imung suliran dah. murag love pa man nimu imung misis i think what you really want to know is kung love pa ba ka niya basi sa iyang kabugnaw. mao as much as we wanna give you advices or share our opinion.. at the end of the day, balik jud ta sa basics bai, istoryahe imung misis..

basin pud, mao na ni ang time nga mugrow mu as a couple..sometimes, things needed to be broken so we would know how to put the pieces back together.

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unsa na update ani TS?

[mhaipush]

Dli jd tuod saun ang mahimong asawa ug inahan at the same tym. My husband once told me katong isa sa pnka.dako bamu nga away, i did my part as a mother pro wla ang pgk.asawa. then i ask him katong n.ok nami nga asa ko dapit ngkuwang, he told me about sa mga n.ana lgi kuno. Sa pg.care.. i told him, myb naanad lng xa saona sa kato wla pami baby. But now that we hav a baby, dli lalim nga kuwang2 imu sleep sa gabie then nig morning imu tnan ky xa mtrbaho nmn. And f mk.idlip mn lng kg sleep dli jd ingon nga mk.tug ka ky imung pandungog mgpaminaw always kung mulihok or muhilak n.u baby, tabyugon or pikpikon nsd nmu. Lisud jd TS oi.

Mybe u both need a little break. Dinner mung duha like the old good days wen manag.uyab pamu. Then talk about all ur concerns. Pasabta lng xa not really nga sugoon nmu xa na e.care ka or something like that. Mybe that will help. Ky sa ako nga part, mao sd na ako gpangita sa ako husband..

[hegugmaa ko beh]

it takes more than dreams or self confidence to develop the kind of marriage. marriage requires a lot of hard work and maturity for success. Example 1: a young couple is married for only six months but said that this was a last attempt at saving a hopeless relationship. they had almost nothing in common. y they are married? of course they are inlove and thot love could resolve all their differences.
Example 2: a couple had been married a year and a half and had a son. the husband had a good job. the wife enjoyed being a homemaker. everytime they talked they ended up in argument. after two months of counseling neither of them was willing to change to improve the quality of marriage. they decide to stick it out or better than divorce. the sad thing about this couple if they live an average lifespan they will have fifty or sixty years of unhappiness.
Example 3:couple had been married for more than 20 years. they had never been very happy together and they seldom did things together. he ruled the family with an iron fist and had little consideration for her feelings. she only stayed with him becoz of the children. now they were gone,der was no use of pretending.
wat happens in such marriages dat makes them fall apart?when these people are married they expressed great love for his partner and planned to live happily ever after. did they change much after marriage? or did they choose the wrong people to marry?

Dating is also the arena wherein you may practice the interpersonal skills to a good marriage. since the four to ten years you spend dating will affect the rest of your life u will want to make this years most productive.
Example: you start dating at age sixteen and marry at 22 and u live the average lifespan of 75 years. u have six years to decide how happy or miserable u are going to be for 53 years.

reasons nganong unsuccessful ang marriage its becoz of the "dating" system. mao bitaw noh sa uyab palang daan kinahanglan ato ng ipakita kung unsa atong tinuod nga batasan kay lisod kaayo ning minyo gyud, dili jud lalim ning kaminyoon. sa uyab palang daan tanan natong batasan nga dili maayo ato ng ipakita, ang mga batasan nga maayo ato sad ipakita. kay kini laging sa uyab pa, magpa ka aron ingnon para lang sugton sa uyab unya inig minyo na adto na tanan nakita ang mga batasan,maonang mag adjust sa usag usa, unya makaingon nalang ta inig minyo, dili man diay mi compatible. importante jud ang "dating system".. maobitaw ingon sila usa dili magdali dali ug kaminyo, ilhon jud ninyo ang usag usa kung unsa jud inyong mga batasan para inig minyo walay mahay.. kay kung magminyo man gud ta lisod kaayo kay ang mga batasan man gud lahi ra..unless kung mag ka vibes mo or compatible jud mo bisan sa gamay na butang. labi na ug naanay mga bata lisod gyud!!! kung sa uyab palang daan maonana ang batasan nga nakita nimo aw maonajud na sya it means wala sya mausab kay maonaman jud sya since una ninyong pag kita.

when people spend time together they develop patterns of behavior that make the relationship predictable and rewarding. the longer a relationship exist before marriage the more natural and genuine the behavior patterns become and the better the marriage should be. A year or 2 of honest courtship then should make a better marriage than a six month courtship.

lisod jud bitaw ang kaminyoon. pero sa akoa kung imong asawa ingon ana na daan sa uyab pa mo nga murag submissive type maonay giingon nga dawata nlng kay maoman kaha na siya sa pagka uyab pa ninyo which is imo na g.accept kay married na gud mo unless kung dili sya ingon ana. you try to communicate, paminawon nimo ang side sa imo asawa basin naa sad sya ikareklamo nimo,basin nabag-o ka.. communication lang jud importante ana. kung dili jud madala have some space, experiment basin naay kuwang then talk. ug dili gehapon aw maonay giingon nga ampo lang ta. pray lang gyud.... everything works in prayer..

[quirkychinita]

for me, if di na nimu love ang taw, just leave him/her. it would hurt him/her more if ga-pretend ka na love pa nimu sya.

[izecream]

Naa koy ika recommend nimo Brod na movie better watch jd ani ,,kay ako thumbs up kaayo ko,,for sure makarelate jd kah! wacht FIREPROOF this movie is intended sa mga couples pwede sda ang mag uyab hehehehe......hope makatabang ni sa imo ug sa imong partner...

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