If You Cheat On Your Spouse...Are You A Bad Parent?

[ej___]

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Makit-an o dili makit-an, basta gabinuang, syempre your making an image of yourself as a bad parent.

You may not consider that you are fooling your family (your beautiful wife and kids), but rather you are fooling yourself.

[Mr.Ho_chia]

it's what a person is made of.

can one really say, i'm a good father, the most honest businessman and cheat on your wife?

it doen't make any sense.

[JaM_meE]

I know someone cheating n his wife.
BUT HE IS A VERY GOOD FATHER.

[Unagi]

I strongly believe that a cheating parent is a bad parent. One of the greatest gifts parents can give to the children is a satisfying and healthy relationship with each other.

[Mr.Ho_chia]

I know someone cheating n his wife.
BUT HE IS A VERY GOOD FATHER.

a person is not a part of himself but a whole.

so can we really say, I am a good businessman and a good father but a lousy husband? unsa na split personality?hehe

It's our character that defines us as a person. If we have strong characters and good set of values, integrity intact, we can be all. yes we may falter but that doesn't mean we end there, we try to be better next time.

Just an opinion.

[ej___]

It's like how well you play some game. Coz, there are people in this world who treat life as a game or part of a game.

I've known many who cheat their spouses but a good provider to their children and a good husband.

They are a bad parent in the sense that they cheat their spouses and go beyond their limits with respect to their marriage vows.

[sheeshcute]

Not necessarily a bad parent. But you're setting a really bad example sa imong kids.

[istoryanimo]

baga kaayo face...

[Choki]

Hehehe..plagiarism man ni innoisant oist..Do you know plagiarism is punishable by law FYI lang..

As to the topic:
If we're talking about morality, this situation really is bad. However, when you have to ponder on it deeply being a cheater doesn't mean that you're a bad parent at all in as long as you provide support and care for your children.

Kasagaran nato would thought na this is bad because of our culture. What if we're born in States or what if we have a western culture, do you think this would still applies? I don't think so, kaya as an individual we should be fair enough then to other culture as well.

[cebu1029]

cheating per se is between the husband and wife. therefore... it has nothing to do with being a good or bad parent.

now... if this cheating goes too far to the point that the husband and wife separates... now you are starting to be a bad parent.