Ali, diri ta tapok: nice topic: to MEN...unsa inyo ika sulti ani? Read below pls:

[Fafnir]

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^He has a point TS. Though wa ko kaexperience ani myself, but naa koy mga close friends nga girls nga mag-ingunana pd. pero di nako kaila ang guy, so sa girl ra ko taman makaadvise.

there is also a concept of the "trophy wife." harsh, but it's a fact that some people choose a partner to be praised that he/she got a "keeper" of a catch. that doesn't mean he/she will be loyal to that particular partner. (S.C.) in short.

to your #1 Q: in filipino culture, *** is somewhat of a taboo topic, rarely is it discussed in depth in most relationships. the couple must have the courage to talk about how to compromise in pleasuring each other. there are lots of reading materials on this, look it up.

#2 not entirely true, some men even prefer older single women to younger ones. as the genetics, yes, people choose their most compatible partners based on traits if they can produce a healthy combination (this is usually unconscious) it might be what you call, "chemistry." (but in your stated case it's lacking timing) LOVE = Chemistry + Timing. (sadly i lack the latter most of the time)

#3 plausible, humans are insatiable, it's a fact. though a number of couples retain that spark in "literally" until death do they part.
it takes 2 to tango, both should make that effort in maintaining that intimacy, find something that strengthens that bond. before you know it, looking for someone else wouldn't be in your dictionary.

[bodacious_babe]

as more and more men are posting on this thread, ga anam anam pod ko ka phobia sa mga lalaki na. I'm sorry to say but that's how I truly feel. Sa mga nag post, salamat sa insights and advice. You are the authority regarding this matter kay kamo man mas kasabot sa dagan sa utok sa laki... so what I appreciate most are your honesty.

I dont think i will ever get into another relationship again. Na traumatize ko. Really.

[aljy]

TS it not that men don't love thier partners or gf. Sometimes men just want to experience again the feeling of "Thrill for the Kill". It is the feeling of excitement when courting or flirting another and it is inate in most men since men were created hunters since prehitoric times. I think it is more on the subconsious mind or most men. We do have our free will but sometimes it is more fun to give in to the urges.

[bodacious_babe]

"...sometimes it is more fun to give in to the urges".

-----> this is PRECISELY the line I dread the most.

[aljy]

-----> this is PRECISELY the line I dread the most.

Don't lose hope TS. Not all men are like that, I was just explaining the possible reasons why men cheat but it doesn't stereotype men as all cheaters. Surely you will find a guy that will see your worth and be loyal and faithful to you.. Aja!! I as guy do admit that I did my fair share of cheating back then, but all it took was tofind one true girl to tame the mighty beast.heheh. So just wait for the right guy for you to tame TS...

[bodacious_babe]

Don't lose hope TS. Not all men are like that, I was just explaining the possible reasons why men cheat but it doesn't stereotype men as all cheaters. Surely you will find a guy that will see your worth and be loyal and faithful to you.. Aja!! I as guy do admit that I did my fair share of cheating back then, but all it took was tofind one true girl to tame the mighty beast.heheh. So just wait for the right guy for you to tame TS...

-----> that's the thing. I hate confrontations, i'm too nice to a fault, too honest and loyal, too faithful. So, if men find that boring, then I better just get busy with other things. I have come to terms that I am better off alone. I have NEVER cheated on a guy before and I got cheated on which left a Very Very Very deep scar and trauma. I never knew I could hurt that much. Lisud kung binuangan ka nga nag tinarong ka.. murag di jud makaya ang sakit. betrayal is the worst way to get stabbed.

Congratulations, aljy! at least you are happy nowl. I wish you and your girl the brightest future ever. Keep posting on my threads ^_^

[yandz]

Most men are bullsh?T biga ray tum0ng but n0t all. Maihap nalang mi mga tar0ng na laki r0n ts=)

[Queen Mojitos]

kasagaran laki man gud ang toot ray ilang giapas walay love mao nga mangita gyud na silag lain kay matod pa nila

"men are born to be polygamous"

so maski unsa pay buhaton sa mga girls para lang masatisfy ang mga laki di gihapon kalikayan nga makipagfling ang mga laki sa ubang babaye

[regan4us]

lingawa nko basa ani nga tread oi wahahaha ahaka

[bodacious_babe]

lingawa nko basa ani nga tread oi wahahaha ahaka

huhuhuhu... katawa haan ra day ko nimo ah?