Is closure needed for both of us?

[mystes]

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Spoiler! 

t0 the threadstarter,.. diz thread of yours are really intriguing & well detailed to read. Just for curiosity... by chance, Is the one who reads this is naka basa ba ani? Please fill in my curious mind and question:
1. Why do you love that guy when infact you already know the situation? Kung sa ako pang maestro, naay sayun, why ga lisod lisod ka sauna?
2. You said - you dream of him bisag wala na na kita ato niya, Still, imo subconscious na utok still longing for a mere REASON. ..hmmm? DIBAH? Do you want to git rid of it and g unsa man nimo para mawala to na damgo?I beat mo cry ka if maka remember ka sa pain na na inflict sauna diba?
3. If you are still connected - and if wala na nimo - Akong ask, why wont u communicate again with him and kumustahe for OLD time sake? Youve been away now...... even distance will set you apart, but the feelings will let that distance be narrowed and stilll LONGING still in there?
4. Ikaw ba ang ga una una sa lalaki og motibo right and u said wala ka nag mahay? Pero will u still go back to the same mistake with another gUy and another time?
5. If you fight - do u believe the word " WORTHY" or not in a sense of doing ol over agaIN?
6. I beat your emotions is cold as ice, but deep inside... its still warm and a bit strange to felt so u USED the word " GETTING used" the feeling... Na anad na ka and so be it...

TS - Sorry ha but i like the way you throw words in here... and I hope u are not makulitan nako.. Thanks..

Here's mine to share:
I am guilty sad na magpakita og motibo.. Sahay maka overbord ko, usahay dele. Dependi..! 3
Depende sa taw na ako ma mingle og depende sa sitwasyun.
TS, i Dont and never belief in coURTship Stage.. courtsHip are for people who wants coNTRACT. Who wants assurance for their own selfish way......Granted its a proper way to court someone, but then it is never a guarantee...
Daghan nag uyab dira na nag buwag.. daghan dinha nagminyu na ga third wheel na..
Oopps., i am not condemning but i am stating fact and real situation in here. TS, you're dignity is not damaged but I beat UR heArt that was rejEctEd is torn apart and for a record, ikAW RA MAKA fixed it ALONE and no one.

Na hulog jud ka TS na kato na guy doesnt deserve youR love...
and na hulog TS na ikaw deli sad deserving ato para niya............
This is the cruelity of life but if the door is closed then see the back door, diba daghan nag wait nimo. friendS and family and along the way, another GUY for the matter.

See life in a positive way... and see your self in a good way..
Life is unpredictable and people we meet here have all th reason...3
may it small or great..... still it has its own REASON.

What u think mga pepz in here?



PS: Like your thread, naka appreciate ko ug healthy debate. Kip the fire burning!

[jury]

For me yes...
Para no hang ups.. Everything is good to go..
And sometimes man gud words would really play a great role in a relationship...
Like there are really people na bisan unsa imong ipakita nga everything ends there...
If dili sila kadungog na THE END na.. Dili sila makasabot..

[clickmenow]

dugaya na ni ako thread but daghan pa jud gi apas.
mystes, here's the cue, courtship is needed for some unsure feelings along the way will popped if dili ka pa court. Yeah, ganahan mo sa usat usa in a weeks or so... but then, usa ninyu, mo let go for some reason and thats not assurance but unsettling and unsure mind set mixed up with emotions.

Still, knowing each other... ila ila ha inyu self.. Be a friend in 3 months or so.. and if its last. then go to next level or be forever friend as attitudes popping in and acceptance showing in or out..

[Passport]

Hi guys,

I think, I badly needed an advise in here.. Well, were not really a bf/gf relationship. Dili mi uyab, but can i ask sum thing niya na mag talk m before ko ma hanaw sa eyang chapter.

But then, feel nako, okey man guru nea f mawala ko nea na way storya2 guru..

Truthfully, naa to chance kato ga date2 m na magtok unta ba - pagawas unta sa gibati naa diri sa kasing2.. ahahaa.. pero hastang lisura oi bsta ang girl mo open ug topic. Permi nalang ako ang mo find ways and means na magtok mi mao btaw ka imbento og laag2.. but then bsta mag koyog na mi - wagtang tanan istorya.. ang nahabilin intawn char2..

nag heart2heart talk nami sa messenger pero kadiot ra kaayu to..bitin kaayu kay out na cea ato ako sad.. After ato - kita japon balik na morag wala pero sakit japon sa kasing2 na pwerteng tagu.. hay.! lami ipahuway sa imburNal 6ft and more away from him.. wahahhahaha

but then is it enaf na magtok jud n person or theres no need na jud? wagtang nalang parang bula.. then balik nea if ok na - if naka dwat nako sa truth jud...

bilib me, dili gyud lami sa imburnal.. mao ray akong masulti