"Wise men love their Wives"

[martinaguirre]

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sa topic above.. i should say bravo to the men who treats their wife well and congrats to those wives who are well loved by their hubbies......

question lang and need answers to clarify my thots pud... have been married for 4 years now

He "very rarely" send me text messages telling me that he loves me nor he says it in person. When i would cuddle or hug him at home, he would just disregard me and tell me na alimo-ot or kapoy xa.. And also mag tuman xa on what he wants to do even if dili kaya sa time, budget and circumstance... He would most of the times consider involving his mom sa among decision making as a couple.. at this point, i have lost my respect in him and sa akong in laws...
when i want to talk to him about these matters, he would not give me his opinions or answers and it heats me up in rage when he does that. I may still have love for him kay ma hurt paman ko.but im considering anullment as an answer.
sa short tale i have mentioned above,do u guys think that my hubby no longer loves me since i dont feel loved nor important anymore.

please share to me ur thots about this..

thanks to those na ni read and reply...

[martinaguirre]

I may have a lot to say about the whole story but i should say that none of the criteria listed in the beginning of the post meets my husband's treatment towards me. i so envy the wives of the gentlemen who commented in this thread....

kudos gentlemen!

[freesoul]

sa topic above.. i should say bravo to the men who treats their wife well and congrats to those wives who are well loved by their hubbies......

question lang and need answers to clarify my thots pud... have been married for 4 years now

He "very rarely" send me text messages telling me that he loves me nor he says it in person. When i would cuddle or hug him at home, he would just disregard me and tell me na alimo-ot or kapoy xa.. And also mag tuman xa on what he wants to do even if dili kaya sa time, budget and circumstance... He would most of the times consider involving his mom sa among decision making as a couple.. at this point, i have lost my respect in him and sa akong in laws...
when i want to talk to him about these matters, he would not give me his opinions or answers and it heats me up in rage when he does that. I may still have love for him kay ma hurt paman ko.but im considering anullment as an answer.
sa short tale i have mentioned above,do u guys think that my hubby no longer loves me since i dont feel loved nor important anymore.

please share to me ur thots about this..

thanks to those na ni read and reply...

How long have you been going steady before you got married? Is he like that when he was your BF?

There are different reasons in every relationship. Maybe you are at fault too that is why he is acting like that. Maybe there are issues in the past that hasn't been settled or healed yet that is why reacts to you in that way.

You must first convince your husband to open up to you so that you can settle things. If things continue to be like that your marriage will loose steam and maybe fail.

Lower your pride, try to listen to him. Talk to him in a toned down way.

I hope you can save your marriage

[martinaguirre]

thanks freesoul.. i have attempted in any way that i know like trying to talk to him when we wake up at dawn, before going to bed, toned down voice, firm voice, angry and even crying. he wont say a thing

i know that i have may own share of mistakes that is why im asking him to tell me what he wants to know and what his opinions are so that i can also put my self accordingly...

i really dont know..... i wish things were easier than this.....
thanks again freesoul...

[rr_sipat]

uu, ngano gud dili nila love, love jud, wise men gud

[freesoul]

Sometimes people find the wrong partner for some reasons like lust, money and security.

Some people have the right partner not because they were lucky, but they were wise enough to realise that what they have is LOVE.

Marraige won't work without the other, its a two way process. Holding on to eachother no matter how tough times may be. Always keep the fire burning for the marraige to last. Love, good communication and affection are the Fuel to the Fire.

[blank0000]

it's really nice to here these words from a guy..gmy ra au nga mga laki ang ingn ani sa ilng mga wife or girlfriend...gmy ra ang mkkta sa worth sa usa ka babae...

[shapes]

so happy for your wife, she's the luckiest to have you..because after all what's matter most you have each others love and respect..myo pa mo..

[arvinbenitez]

nice one.. this one is true.. up for this..

[psyrille_alphatrix]

i wish managhan pa ang sama nimo... but some guys are just too selfish and stubborn to be considered "wise"...