-- balik sa marriage/guy thingy bah, sis, my piece of advice is just dont do something na mabalhin sa imo ang blame. for example, don`t get into another relationship coz technically ur still married mn gd. naa biya mo promise pagkasal, na whatever happens ull stick with each other. if dili niya kaya mabuhat ang promise, at least, ull prove to him na kaw kaya nimo despite everything. maabot man jud daw na ang time na molikoy gani ginagmay... but still, at the end of the day, balik ra gihapon mo`s usag-usa. bisan unsaon man sad bali-bali niya ug ingon na love niya ang girl, ang girl kabit lang gihapon, coz ur the legal wife. so u better stay put. sooner or later, mobalik ra na siya.