@dodong69 , i Push mo pa yan
Naa koy question sa akong mga fellow girl istoryans .. since half breed man ko mangutana nalang pud ko haha
Do you sometimes tend to be hypocrite when it comes to your feelings for someone , perhaps a defense mechanism para dili ka samot masakitan? kay ako I sometimes tend to, but eventually if I get used to having that belief like dili nako niya ganahan, the more man nuon ko masakitan ... So instead, I rant about everything and anything about that person kay that way dali ra nako cya makalimtan I would rather dislike the person than deny to myself na di nako niya ganahan ...
Last edited by Wynna; 08-21-2014 at 07:06 PM.
Good question wynnski
The only time I lie is when it concerns about my feelings for
a person. You're right on the defense mechanism. You can't
take that away from peeps who have scarred so much in the
past that they tend to mask their feelings so not to get played
again. But come to think of it, it still hurts stopping yourself
from feeling - far greater than a broken heart
What consoles the heart is how you convince yourself that sa
sinugdanan pa ang kalipay. I know it's wrong to have that kind
of mindset but it works to my advantage.
Different strokes for different folks
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
Julia Child
Hala naa koy nailhan ing-ana dang, he, he...
Bitaw, on a serious note; para lang nako ha..IMHO maka feel kah ing-ana kung siguro either in denial ka to face the reality nga it's over na between ninyo duha.
Moving on isn't easy unless u haven't loved that person in the first place.
Sa ako sab bahin, siguro life's experience sab had helped me a lot to be more tougher and wiser to handle my emotions.
Cos I have other priorities in life that needs more attention.
I've programmed my mind to believe, kana bitaw genaingon nga u can keep someone in ur heart forever but not in ur life.
It is not fair to the other person but also to urself kay ikaw ra mismo nagpasakit sa imo kaugalingon , lab yu!
Kana sab ila genaingon nga.."It is best to move on if the pain of holding on is worst than the pain of letting go"
Last edited by miramax; 08-21-2014 at 07:22 PM. Reason: grammar
Mao nang giingon nga SHIT happens just flush it and move on
Hahaha! May pinaghuhugatan dah
Nice thing about dating though is the kilig part
and the excitement you get everyday when you
look forward to another day with the person...
Gives you a natural blush, no need for make-up
coz of that "love" glow showing in your face
Prolly in time you'll become a different person and
think that there's more to life than having someone.
Times are hard nowadays so kayod sa ta
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
Julia Child
Oooh yeah sweetie
And, you don't need anybody to press the flush button for you.
Kidding aside ....The next time you find yourself fixating on negative thoughts against your ex-, ask yourself “Am I not gettin overblown by my emotions and why I am doing this to myself”
Remember that it’s not about you or your ex, all that is needed is to get through beyond the emotional triggers brought by dwelling on that unsuccessful relationship that you left behind.
You could say that, but I was kinda referring to the other ex. we've both been bitter for a few months, but eventually we became friends. We both know that the feeling is still there, but we just chose to keep the friendship. I was so hypocrite that time, as well as I hated her so much for what happened. That's how I dealt with it, I mean I tried to push her away several times because I was afraid of giving it another try. Now we have moved on and we're both happy with our lives.
I couldn't agree more. The difficult part in moving on is when you keep on holding to the good memories you both shared with each other, and the idea of getting used to of doing things the routinary way with that someone.
I'll let the housekeeper do the flushing instead
Yeah, it's not about me or my ex ... it's the people who tries sooo hard to fit in to the situation. Actually , I ain't bitter , I just hate it when they talk behind my back. Can't they just fvck!n move on with their lives? ... Besides, people they talk to about me doesn't have anything to do with the "unsuccessful relationship" that "WE" both or should I say "I" left behind. CHEAP plastic materials are definitely everywhere.
OT: happy for you wynnski
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
Julia Child
One more question when ta mag ice cream @lifeisbeyeeutiful ? hahaha
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