I agree that true love waits... The problem is that we oftentimes forget the difference between waiting and being passive.
Guy: Hi, May I court you?
Girl: No... I'm waiting for my future lover...
---100 years later ---
(girl dies and goes to heaven)
Girl: Lord! Y U NO GIMME LAB LAB?
God: BUANG KA! GITAGAAN TIKA! PANO-NO PA KA DIHA!