Merged: All Love Problems

[sadgirl]

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hey, im not a girl (not yet a woman ), this is just my opinion.
i have a friend that is using the same tactics. kanang ganing magpaluoy2, emote2, pabroken2 hearted just to get someone's attention - ang girl nga iyang gidiskarte-an or to everyone who knows the girl para maka tell sa girl.
how come this guy is doing that way?
i just think the guy is naive. he has a lot to learn how feelings of a woman are wired. maybe ikaw ang una niya nga prospect.

naa pud diay girl ma in love ug ingon ana noh? gikilig pud ka, how cute. hahahaha...
are you really that in love sa guy? or na luoy lang ka?

my answer to your "To the boys" question: yup that is possible, everything is possible. just think it that way para safe. :P

if you really really like the guy, help him!
tell him directly to get your contact and tell him to date you if that's what he wants.
start from there and don't give-in sa iyang begging.

I don't need a person pareha nya batasan... Everything is clear now, he just used me.
hehehe, okay naman ko ron, though naa pa lang gamay bitterness.

[tikud]

guys clear up my mind...

we're been together for 5 years as bf-gf relationship we've been tru a lot and we know each other very well...ive decided that this girl is the one 1 want to marry and i undoubtly love her, i really respect her for this 5 long years we chose do not engaged in s*x. we planned not to do the deed until marriage, everything went well until she had a problem regarding her reproductive organ, she undergoes major operation which requires to pull off her ovaries..both ovaries my problem now is that she does not produce any more hormones.. that affects her sexual desire, abi nko okey ra pro as time goes by i think affected pud ko..even sa kiss wla na cya sa mood im frustrated already i know la nya ni gtuyo and wla pud cya sala sa among situation, dghan na kaau ko mga wat ifs, damned i hate this life...

i know naa medication ani but the risk is too high

Bro the resulting infertility, the risks and side effects entailed by premature menopause, as well as the possible psychological and social repercussions can't be handled by your GF alone. This is the time she needs you most.

[blackfedora]

@sadgirl: tsk3x.. nagpakita unta ka ug interest sa guy katong nagpapansin pa nimo... den if manguyab.. aw! mao nana nga time para pagukdon na nimo.. hehe.. nawa! nibalhin na hinuon sa lain.. one advise sad, don't ever fall in love to a guy who has not declared his undying love for you... ^_^

[sadgirl]

@sadgirl: tsk3x.. nagpakita unta ka ug interest sa guy katong nagpapansin pa nimo... den if manguyab.. aw! mao nana nga time para pagukdon na nimo.. hehe.. nawa! nibalhin na hinuon sa lain.. one advise sad, don't ever fall in love to a guy who has not declared his undying love for you... ^_^

bitaw2x, pero im the type nga kun dli nhan ang laki nako, aw dli sad ko mamugus noh... keber. hehehe

nainsulto ra ko, mao to nahurt ko.

gi-tripan ra jud ko, pero maau nlang wala kaau ka dut sa dughan...

[camzywinsy]

@P4case

hala sa? I was sad hearing your story because you've waited for something na di na nuon ninyo makuha now . If hibaw-an pa, maypa nag-baby mo at an earlier time. Pero karon, you have to understand na your gf feels so down and nag situational low self esteem. Remember? the essence of a woman is to become a mother and a wife. But you cannot be just a wife without raising your husband's children which your gf cannot do anymore kay di naman ka ka anak without the ovaries. She needs you now.. I hope you won't leave her...

[P4case]

Bro the resulting infertility, the risks and side effects entailed by premature menopause, as well as the possible psychological and social repercussions can't be handled by your GF alone. This is the time she needs you most.

yeah i know, what bothers me is the frustration, ang passion and romance is gone and kasabot man pud ko there is a drastic changes after sa iyang operation... i know i have to accept it but sometimes magpangita pud ko sa akong needs.. i totally understand her but what about mine? i might sound selfish pro d nko ma discredit and akong needs.. what if in a long run maka sala na noon ko

@P4case

hala sa? I was sad hearing your story because you've waited for something na di na nuon ninyo makuha now . If hibaw-an pa, maypa nag-baby mo at an earlier time. Pero karon, you have to understand na your gf feels so down and nag situational low self esteem. Remember? the essence of a woman is to become a mother and a wife. But you cannot be just a wife without raising your husband's children which your gf cannot do anymore kay di naman ka ka anak without the ovaries. She needs you now.. I hope you won't leave her...

i've accepted her as what she is... i know b4 la pa mi ngkauyab na d na cya ka.anak and its not an issue to us.. ang ako lang nawagtangan na cya ug sexual desire because d nman cya ka produce ug hormones.. naa alternative mo take cya ug pills but ang risk is cancer pud which is lisod pud.. im not after sa s*x ang ako lang is wla nay passion and romance... mura nalang tawn mi ug igsoon maski kiss man lang as an expression sa among luv maglisod na cya kay la cya sa mood.. ang2x man pud mamugos ko f la cya na feel na.. frustrated lang gyud ko ron

[mykus]

I never tot na magkacross ug balik among landas wid this girl ..after i broke up with my xgf(A)( 4yrs yrs amo relationship) then jus before christmas tru links sa akong bag-o nga na fren kay fren pud d.i niya ( its a small world den)....so dinhe nagstart among communication and panagsuod ug balik..xgf(B) ne nko cya before sa akong 4yrs nga xgf(A)..amo relationship sauna kay kana galing mga puppylov pa..cguro let me call it murag immature..kaila kaau cya sa akong xgf(A) kay nagkafrens man sila..der was a tym man gale nga iya kung gidaot sa akong xgf(A),i mean murag gipalagot niya akong xgf(A) regarding sa among kaage sauna but nagwonder ko nganung iya manto gibuhat( ingon cya..wla cya kahibaw ato nga tym nganu iya sad daw toh gibuhat den nangayo cya ug sori)..well,to make the story short..we been dating since after christmas until now..but naa cya unfinished biznes kay wla silay closure sa iyang bf hangtud karon..iya sulti nko dli na cya ganahan ato kay daghan kaau mga negative comments about dat guy..der was one tym n her life nga she's been asking daw kang Bro nga tagaan cya ug Guy nga contented cya sa iyang life..but all of a sudden ako man hinoon ang niabot sa iyang life( ingon cya ne-fit kuno ko tanan sa iyang gipangau)..for me den,wla sad ko nag-expect nga cya ang muabot sa akong lyf...kay wla naman ko nag-expect sa iyaha..labe na sa iyang gibuhat sa akoa before..nasakitan sad ko nga kalit lang cya nawala..pero karon nagka-uyab jud me ug balik..and now akong mga confusing things is..does she really loves me(destiny) kay dli naman jud cya gusto sa iya bf or tingalig gipanakit butas lang ko niya

[heisenberg69]

She loves YOU...consider it as a BLESSING...

[maitoots]

murag lisud man pd ni itubag.. be a spy for the time being, only you can say kng panakip butas lang ka or what.. but give her the benefit of doubt pd kay what if d ay tnuod pd nga in the end kamo ra d ay ghapon duha but i think it's just too early to say nga kamo na jud, after all mao pa gni inyo pagkita balik. get to know her better.. again.. dont rush things lang.. enjoy lang sa the moment nga nagkakita and nagka cross blik ang inyong nga paths..

[mykus]

She loves YOU...consider it as a BLESSING...

thanks bro for that positive input..