@marc_b and cookie_cola
noh? is that true? seems to me like you are saying different things. while cookie's saying the gf surely doesn't mind marc's going out, marc naman is saying nga dili jud lagi mosugot ang gf nga mag laag siya with the boys.
what's the situation, really?
for me sad noh, if the gf is vulnerable and lonely at this time due to a previous relationship, i think it's high time that she got rid of those. it's been 2 years, kanus-a pa man siya magbag-o? that's a baggage and though the bf can help her deal with it, she has the main responsiblity. it's okay to expect loving support from the significant other but no, the SO can never do it for her. maab-tan jud ug puol ang tawo kung dili na healthy ang relationship.