Sometimes us ladies have to prolong the "agony" kay we want to make sure were gonna get along. We want to make sure that the guy would accept our flaws among pagka hormonal, among pagka maldita, among pagka-buang. Our habits, compulsive shopping and sometimes among pagka-garboso...
We need to know if that guy wooing wouldn't hurt us as much.
We need to know so many things kay di mi ganahan magpatuga tuga.
Nasa huli ang pagsisisi like what they say.
In the end, we don't wanna hurt the guy pud if ever buwagan kay we saw something that we feel na di na angay antuson.
We just dont want to end up crying ourselves to sleep or be caught in a corner and we just find ourselves in a complicated situation... too complicated para mubiya due to contradicting parties, responsibilities etc.
We just want to make sure the guy who asks for our hands gives us the promise of respect, love, sincerity, commitment and faith.
HOWEVER.
Naa pud laing babay na ganahan ragyud palisuron ang guy either because they wanted to be the boss or they wanted to feel wanted that the guy needs to beg OR simply because they just want to have followers and collect them..... di malikayan na naay babaye na ingana.... those are what I call GIRLS.....