With or Without Uyab?

[jd_iceblizzard]

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yaw dyud mo pag uyab2x kung dili sugot imong papa...

kay bitayon ka sa nangka nya paasohan...

[nemmo723]

@Pinkdimensions

relax lng bai.. ayaw kaau ka-aggressive..
wa man ko nag-ingon na puros na lng spontaneous, ingon ko, sometimes, maau pud na spontaneous. life is to be lived gud, not planned all the time. so ang pagka-spontaneous, murag come what may ra pud na. pero dili pud pirmi-hon, kay wala nay direction. i decide my own fate, if thats what you want to know.. i am not stuck with fate. i am responsible for what i go into, but i am only human. with a limited mind and perspective, dili jud ko makasigurado na pila ka percent ang control. sometimes, 100% akong control, kana kung nakasigurado na jud ko. kung madala sa logical planning, maka-100% sure jud. pero sometimes, dili man jud na perme na makahibalo ta na pila atong control. sometimes, wala jud tay control. sa kana na situation, unsa man imong buhaton?

taga-an tikaw ug example ha. lets say mag 5 years na mo sa inyong uyab.. and wala jud mo plans to have children pa, kay paet ang panahon.. of course, i wouldn't say na wala mo nag-toot jud.. i mean, we're consenting adults here. hehe. so what if nabuntis xa? naa kay control ana? wala.. accidents happen. lets continue on with this scenario.. what if naka-accept namo na expecting a baby na.. and 6 months later, for no particularly obvious reasons at the moment, na-miscarriage ang baby.. unya dismayed kaayo imong uyab kay mother-to-be na gud unta xa, affected kaau xa.. unsa-on man na nimo paghandle? i-drop nimo siya kay wala xa ka-understand? again accidents happen. all im saying is, sometimes we are sure of control, and sometimes we just have to accept what happens.. this is where spontaneity comes in..

of course, im just giving a rather gloomy example. another example of spontaneity would be kay mudecide mo together to elope.. hehehe.. romantic ni na example.. elope na wala naglabag sa parents ha, just elope for the fun of it para simple na lng, wala nay complications.. whatever surprises come your way, as long as u love each other, maski walay preset plans, your relationship will survive. the most admirable characteristic of humans is their resiliency gud.

so again, ngano nakasulti man ka na dumb ang spontaneous? honest to goodness ra ni nako na question.

pero can u give exact scenario nga spontaneous unya nalipay mong duha? just dont include nga either of you has planned it ha..

kanang mga romantic moments, dili man na xa planned.. mao na siya gitawag na spontaneous. and yes, lipay kaau ming duha.

cases uncontrollable na gyud? i think ur just being unreasonable maong deli nimo ma control.. ur heard is on top of ur heart.. thus, be sane enough to use it over ur emotions. pero mao lagi.. if gusto ka malipay sunda ug unsay gisulte sa imong kasing2x...

u judge me without getting to know me yet.. tsk, tsk.. oh well, for ur benefit, i am very sane enough to use my head over my emotions.

love also entails that we help others understand us. diba? Smiley
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cguro..but if naa kay bf nga who notices life is too short and values time ... helping u understand him would be a waste of time.. .. call me insensitive and ill like the idea.. hihi..

ako lng ni ha.. but i think its never a waste of time to help others understand.
anyway, naa ko ishare na excerpt from a book:
If our love is unrequited, are we any poorer for having loved? Quite the contrary, for loving enriches and does not impoverish us. As the old friar told Evangeline when she told him of her wasted affection:
"Talk not of wasted affection, affection never was wasted;
If it enrich not the heart of another, its waters returning
Back to their springs, like the rain,
shall fill them full of refreshment;
That which the fountain sends forth returns again to the fountain."

[nemmo723]

pwede both...? heheh!

pwede kaau.. hehehe..

[Pinkdimensions]

ahu? hihihi..nice ..kaon sako balikon tikaw..

about ur future fairy tales.. it wont work.. i stick to my plans gyud.. hihih.. and about sa book?/ dli ko karelate ana kay i dont get stories from such us those kind of books.. hihi..

[Aodhan Lex]

hmmmm

this is my opinion lang ha?

with or with "uyab" -- you can always enjoy life! it depends on how you see it!?

the question is, how will you enjoy life with or having "UYAB"? coz having her/him can be enjoyable or disastrous. either way , thats life.

the only problem in having uyab , is that --there is no assurance that it will always be enjoyable and happy relationship--sometimes it is destined to doomed-
for me, the least thing u can do is to make most of it, deal it fairly, inshort leave your life everyday as if your last day wth your love one. oneday, ul wake up realizing u conquer and enjoy life (with uyab) .

[Pinkdimensions]

nawala na nuon ang dapat nakong esulte human sa akong pag baktas2x sa init aron mani udot hihih..

[jd_iceblizzard]

whew...! saunz... naay wafa ako kasabay ug kaon... makauyab na unta ko ato... hehehe!

[crush_23]

with or without uyab.....

without uyab ---- la kay laing think imo rang self

with uyab --- magthink ka imong self ug sa imong uyab....doble na imong hunahunaon

[mata_hari]

i could live with it or even without it...

no big deal really

[Pinkdimensions]

@ mata_hgari