Is there something wrong with me?

[kishni]

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@P-chan , I said NO all the time. You just assume I'm a slut?

[apple_jane]

I have dated and met many guys... and almost always they want to take me to their beds! Regardless of where we are or if I have given hints that I like or dislike the guy. ... Is there something wrong with me??! Or I'm just paranoid?

Honestly, i feel the same way sometimes! I guess, it's part of the process in looking for the one for you... you just have to keep on trying!

[wormwood]

n'gel has a point. maybe you're sending the wrong signals.

here's a basic analogy. predators in the wild like lions would go for EASY preys like the young or the wounded gazelles. hitherto, human males in pursuit of their basic instinct to relieve themselves of such fleshly desires would therefore go for women they perceive as an EASY catch. now what would be an easy catch? If a guy see a very sexy woman exposing too much of herself living little for the imagination, he would think she's easy. But not quite, most of the times, it boils down to how they interact, attitude. A girl with a flirty attitude would almost always be considered EASY. I'm not saying that you are flirty. But maybe, the guys you've been with before got this signal from you. Maybe you are just so 'malambing' that they could misinterpret that you are flirting with them.

[kishni]

@wormwood, are you trying to say, i'm an easy prey?

[soulshocked]

aw! that would be crass..! cheap! haha.. oi.. i know what's going on here.. nyahahahah..

[kiat_gamay]

what is wrong with you guyz?

[soulshocked]

hehe..bitawz!

[wormwood]

@wormwood, are you trying to say, i'm an easy prey?

i'm not suggesting that you are. what i'm trying to say is maybe the men/guys you've been with before think you are. Maybe they thought you were flirting with them and want to get on with it.
like i said, maybe you're sending them the wrong signals. or maybe you're transmitting the right ones but they misinterpret it.

[The_Gadore]

ey by the looks of how thing's seem to be going maybe there really is something wrong... just personal view though... well good luck... ...

[KASAAC]

TRUE...agree with wormwood....they probably misinterpreted you @kishni...try not to go out with guys kuno veh alone...go for group date if your not quite sure of the guy's intentions or motives and be very vigilant...you will notice the guy's intent to you, its ok to be skeptic sometimes...