Relationship Challenge : Will you still love her even if she slept with 15 guys?

[twistedANGEL25]

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Past is past. The guy loves the girl man kaha? So why does he go back and think about the girls' past? What she has done, the good and the bad, is a part of her. It is what made her what she is today. If love jud sa guy ang girl, then he will make those 15 guys into one guy. SIYA RA.

Dont judge a person by their past.

[azaleayve]

the problem with this?

for the girl:

The girl got f*cked not just once, twice or thrice but many times. Being in a relationship nya doing it, its UNDERSTANDABLE. ONS of many times with different guys? This girl needs to r e-learn her lessons. Again and again till she realizes that whatever problem she's facing, drinking and getting f*cked by different men dili solution.


For the guy?

He may love this girl, but as stated by one of the comments above, not all men end up marrying their first. and he is ohwell a Virgin. So what will you expect from a guy like this? Mas gusto jud na og siyay makauna... Sad reality it is, but most men wants to be their gf's first, and when he isn't, they'd take her for granted and would only ask for that three letter word that starts with an S.

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

^ basin hungaw na....

[afro.samurai10]

unsa nang girl ana prosti? grabe anang accident nga one night stand? naa diay na? kulongoon manag utok bayhana cguro. or basin nymphomaniac.

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

^ hubgon mn beh, gipanamastamasan dayun....lahi naman gud ang RH karun, naay gensing sagol....

[dSaiNt23]

basin iya sad na trip ngita ug sakar...peace

[jdane]

lisod na ipangita ug laki nga magtinarong ana...labaw na inig kahibaw nga pornstar d.i

ma take advantage lng gihapon na sure ko, kay humok kaayo nag ilong bayhana...

weeh..? naa pa man gani mo punit anang mga prosti ug mga bold star..pakaslan pa, ug tarungon pag tratar.

ang sakto is this: kini nga girl, dili jud ni mapunitan sa mga laki nga narrow-minded ug insecure.

So better if mag wait nalang ang girl sa right guy nga mo abot..biyaan niya ni nga laki ug tarongon niya iyang self. Pagahi.on niya iyang ilong para d na mapun-an ang 15. Lisod ni, pero dili impossible by God's grace.

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

TS, guapa ang girl?......

[kimleeKINO_choi]

This is a story of my friend's bestfriend.

Mao ni si Guy.
Mao ni si Girl.

Guy has a very rough lonesome past. Broken hearted, hopeless romantic and Virgin. Pero kani siya nga lalaki, loyal kaayo ni siya. Dili ni siya mamiya ug tao ug open minded. There was a time nga naa siyay gi panguyab nga babae nga gusto kaayo niya pero na busted siya. Depressed kaayo siya pero naka move on ra. Until she met this "Girl" through sa iyang bestfriend.

Kani si Girl. Very tragic iyang past. She slept with 14 guys. The first 4 guys she slept with kay serious relationship. The rest of 5 guys kay she slept with kay one night stand by "accident" and the other 5 kay short term relationships or pasabot "WALAY KLARO". She gets drunk easily by drinking 4 half glass of red horse and that is why nga daghan lalaki nga ni took advantage sa iyang lawas. This girl is a "fragile" type of girl. She is "weak". She has a very tragic past of her broken family and financial issues. Let us say that those 10 guys just really want to have s*x with this girl cause she is "fragile and weak". Her tragic past is one of the reason why nga ni agi siya aning stage nga sige ra siya ug tulog sa mga random guys.


Now, this "GIRL" met this "GUY" through sa iyang bestfriend. Bale kaning "bestfriend" kay "bridge" para kang Girl and GUY.

Grabeh ang gugma sa duha nila Girl and Guy. Kaning lalaki kay ka 15th nani siya para sa Girl.

But then, when the Guy finally knew about the Girl's past kay na down iyang emotions. Lets say that this GUY got jealous of this girl cause she slept and had s*x with 14 guys.

The Girl dropped everything, pleaded, kneeled down, and cried that she wants to have a new life. The Girl said that wala na siya katilaw ug inaning klase nga gugma ug dili na ni niya ganahan mawala. This GIRL REALLY LOVE THIS GUY SO MUCH. The Girl will do whatever it takes nga dili niya i leave ang GUY. She loved this GUY so much that she gets jealous easily and paranoid if naay kauban ang GUY ang lalaki ug lahi nga babae.

The Girl promised to herself that this will be the last ever nga boyfriend iyang i uban pirme.
Actually, this GIRL never cheated someone ever from her entire life. All of those 14 guys she slept with cheated on her. Kung i klaro pa nato, malason ni nga babae kay tanan mga lalaki nga iyang na uyab kay nangabit ug lain nga babae. Bale "not enough" siya para aning mga lakiha.


But this GUY. This GUY loves this GIRL so much. This GUY cared her so much that he wants to make this GIRL happy and let her forget her previous past relationships.

After pila ka months, everything was fine and their relationship went stronger and stronger far than better. Dugay na jud wala katilaw ang GIRL nga inaning klaseha nga relasyon. Lipay jud kaayo siya. Lipay pud kaayo ang Lalaki.

Pero naay problema ani.
According to my friend's' bestfriend that kaning GUY kay ma insecure siya. Usahay kay ma overthink niya ang past sa girl about sleeping with 14 guys dayun siya ang 15th. Lets say that the guy feels so "inferior" kunohay kay mas daghan natulogan ang babae.


Ang concern namo aning GUY kay unsaon namo nga dili siya ma insecure ani nga lipay na kaayo ang GIRL. The GUY really love this GIRL so much and this GIRL really loves the GUY so much pero ma insecure lang jud si GUY about sa past relationship sa GIRL. Bale mahulog nga maoy rason nga mag away ni sila kadugayan.

The GIRL confessed to her best friend that she Regretted her past. She felt so dirty and the GIRL was so embarrassed when she told the GUY nga nakatulog siya ug 14 guys.

Unya instead nga mu care unta ang GUY, nag selos nuon siya or na upset ba or para niya, "unfair" guro kay nakatulog ang Girl with 15 guys.


If ikaw ang GUY, Will you really love this GIRL? This GIRL was looking for true love for so many years and finally she found it. This GUY really loves this GIRL so much but usahay mutukar ni iyang mga insecurities ba.

Right now we are currently finding ways to convince the guy nga PAST is PAST.
Unsaon mani oi.

I'm sorry TS bt I badly had 2quote this. I hav so many points of observation to tell.

First & foremost, if the feelings are too strong it can possibly be so right or it can also be so painfully wrong. Why? Sa ka strong sa love sa laki for the GIRL kai niabot na sa point nga insecure na kaau xa kai da gurl had 10 hurtful pasts (wala lng nko gicount ang other 4 kai serious mn kha 'to?). Dili na healthy kong pirmi insecure ang GUY. Bsag sa pnaka k strong na feelings for each other it can still be shaken bcoz of d undying arguments just about the same thing over & over & over agen. Their main ongoing argument is alwys about da GUY's ego. Bcoz she's his first in everything (about love), ryt? Then da man feels it very unfair to him bcoz karon ra xa na inlove tapos sa GIRL pjud na muhatag reason na ma insecure xa. Oh well, ingn pa nila TS "Sa dinami-dami ng Babae pwde mahalin jan sa knya pa na mrami nging nkaraan" -sakto kaau ni pra sa imo friend TS..hehe

Agree ko wen u said "She's weak". Bcoz of wat hav happened to her family (broken and financially unstable) she just took & chose da wrong path. She has dis reason 2cover up for her painful mistakes. In dis way she could feel she's less dirty and less embarrassed. I feel that maybe she's really truthful when she kneeled down and pleaded him 2stay w/ her, cried a river for him not to disappear from her life until forever. If she gets paranoid whenever someone (girl) will be at her man's side that's what I call as Boomerang. She's scared that the person who she loves now will only repeat history, but she should keep in mind if she can't trust that person, si GUY, she'll nver be at ease forever in their relationship. PLUS the GUY isn't comfortable either about the so-called EGO. He doesn't trust her enough not to mke another mistake. Or bcn hadlok ang GUY masayup npud ang GIRL and he'd be able to still forgive her? (that's another story to tackle anyways). Pero TS kung unsa mn dangatan ani ilang relasyon dpat dli nila kalimtan sila rang duha gahimo sa ilang love story. Kung ila e-allow mgbuwag 2ngod sa inferiority complex sa GUY and feeling awful sa GIRL sa iyang past aw, sila na mag-igu ana.

Their situation isn't just the usual relationship arguments bcoz the girl's dignity is involved here (w/c is highly sacred). But tell them TS, kng wla pd na sitwasyun sa GIRL nahappen makat-on kha sila two na mas mo-stand stronger sa relationship? That is if they can still w/stand each other's shortcomings in the future.

They should bear in mind that everyone in a relationship has to go such a problem but makaya rana nila TS kng naa lang jud ilang faith and hold unto each other's love. LOVE mn kha ni GUY kaau si GIRL? And mao pd si GIRL love much si GUY? Then they start from there, kng balik2 na ilang argument daun wla jpon resolution from both parties then they must be open to the possibility na buwag ra ila padulngan. Buwag sila, wla ta kbaw mas mksabot sila sa usa'g-usa kng layu sila & kng mo-abot ang tym ma realize nila dli mdala nga wla ang isa, balik sila & have a better understanding of the relationship.

"Sometimes it's better that people break up, so they can grow up. It takes grown-ups to make relationship works."

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

^ d jud lage cguro kadawat ang guy, tungod sa katorse.....